Sucker Punch - 3 Times Life Has Given Me A Really Hard Knock by @patience90

Introduction

Good day everyone, welcome to my blog. I am @patience90 and I want share with you the 3 times life has given me a really hard knock that I can never forget.
However, I will not be fair if I don't appreciate the leadership of @steemalive community for the opportunity to express myself. Thanks a million.

Life itself is a tussle and full of ups and downs. But our ability to shake off and move on after a battle and never stay down is what makes us stronger.

Notwithstanding, I want to share 3 out of some of the hard punch life has given me and they are :

• Anger
• Typhoid
• Disappeared capital

Anger

Anger is a feeling of hostility or antagonism that can bring the urge to harm someone or something.
I have been battling with anger since I was a child.

• I easily get angry and anger can make me withdrawn and keep quiet for days without talking to anyone.
• I am 31 and I have been going through this all my life.
• This particular problem has caused me a relationship with a friend. Instead of speaking out, out of anger I decided to be withdrawn without talking about the problem until it escalated to the place of no return.
• Most times I pray as a Christian because I know I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me and I have been trying to air out my feelings even though I shared tears at the cause of it most times.
• I will appreciate if I can be helped to always take things easy without getting pissed off anyhow.

Typhoid

On the 25th November 2015 around 11:45 pm was the night I will never forget when I was awoken by a very sharp pain in my lower abdomen and was rushed to the primary health care by my aged father because no one was home with us. It was later diagnosed to be acute typhoid that could have led to surgery if not discovered on time.

• Since that experience, I sometimes feel the pain in my abdomen and typhoid has never left me completely again. Currently, I am seriously down with the same typhoid that is resisting treatment but I know i am healed in Jesus name.
• Presently I have tones of clothes to sew for customers but I couldn't because of the sickness which has set me backwards
• I have been taking medications both herbs and mordern just to do away with it
• I will appreciate a permanent drugs or treatment that can take this typhoid away completely.

Disappeared Capital

I decided to tagged it disappeared because our house was not buggled and there has never been history of theft among my nieces and I was very sure of keeping the money because I just got them from debtors.

• I am into buying and selling of materials and by January 2021, my capital disappeared from my room and the most funniest thing was when I discovered, I dropped another amount and it got missing again but I didn't tell anyone about it instead, I became withdrawn and hostile towards everyone in the house.
  I stopped going out until my brother fathom that something was wrong with me.
• I was depressed for weeks because my customers were demanding for new materials but I had no money to order another set and I was koboless from my account down home because I did December shopping and hoping that I'll use my capital to bounce back.
• It crippled my business completely because no one was even ready to lend me money at that time.
• I collected few of my debts and thank God @charis20 told me about some materials and sent pictures to me. I advertised them and some customers made payments and told me to keep for them. That was how I started little by little and I am still coming up.
• I will appreciate if my post are voted for and I get some steem to sale to boost my business again.

Conclusion

Anger is a small madness, do nothing or say nothing when you are angry because what you will destroy will be more than what caused your anger.

In that regard, I wish to invite @charis20, @stanleynnah and @desiredlady to come share your experiences on sucker punch.

Special thanks to
@focusnow
@samuel20
@talktofaith and others.

I remain
@patience90