My Entry, "Women in the Spotlight ✨" #05

Hi sweet souls

I you greeting from my space. It's indeed a a thing a thing of joy to be part of this contest today, if I must say, seriously I love this topic and I am fully ready to give in my best so that you all will learn and enjoy your stay. A big shout-out to @aviral123 for organizing such an amazing contest, which would make a very huge impact in the lives of each lady out there.

So many mysterious things keeps happening over and over again with our young ladies coming up, mostly happening to every pretty and Smart kids out there, meanwhile it's very important to educate every young girl out there inorder to know the consequences attached and what can be done to stop them from happening.

☑️Explain the difference between good touch and bad touch?

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Before i continue, i Will love to share with us what the word TOUCH means. Touch can be seen as expression or feeling you render to someone, either by attaching bodily parts or use of hands which is mostly used. Meanwhile, touch is supposed to be a normal thing done by anyone, but then it's depends on what is accompanied with the touch (positively or negatively).

Good Touch is a touch that makes a person happy, and makes the person feel cared for, I e the touch is coming with all sincerity and doesn't contain any form of harm. This alone can make a person feel free and comfortable around you.

While bad touches are those that are abusive and involve touching where is not supposed to be touched, these can make you feel uncomfortable, scared or violated, because is coming with a bad aim. This can also be unwanted touches or forced touch (such as one's private areas).

☑️What measures should girls adopt to avoid bad touch?

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As a matured girl I think you should know the places whenever you go it's attracts bad touches, what you need to do First thing first is to be careful and avoid such places with immediate effect, so as to prevent yourself from story that touches the heart and leave you with regret.

As a girl, learn to say no to some request and never visit a guy alone, it's either you go with a friend or relation and meeting him in open places inorder to avoid anything called touch or any negative thoughts of destruction. So avoid and flee inorder to be safe.

☑️At what age should we teach children about touch?

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They should be taught from the time they can understand. I would say by age 3 a child should know if someone touches them in a “bad" way and should be given words, proper names for body parts, and a parent should always listen to their child even if they don't have words to explain what happened.

In the same way, parents need to teach their children that they have private parts of their bodies and that it is not okay for others to touch these parts. And also let children know that it's okay to say NO if you don't like any touch, even from a friend in school or family members.

☑️How to know that this touch is wrong touch, express your opinion?

Honestly speaking, for me to know if a touch is wrong touch is specifically touching the wrong part of the body which isn't supposed to be touched on a norms. And these areas could be the private areas, breast, and other part of the body that might not make you feel comfortable whenever someone touches them. So we ladies ought to be careful and mindful of places we visit, to avoid touches that might lead you both to sin that leads to destruction.

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