My Entry, "Women in the Spotlight ✨" #08

Hello my beautiful steemladies, I bring you all greetings from my space, with hope and believe you all are doing great and enjoying your new well . Here comes another week again to participate in contests here on this platform, and today we are talking about "women hating themselves" due to one reason or the other, special thanks to ma'am @aviral123 for always making efforts to organizing an interesting contest, may God almighty rewards your efforts. Thank you all and I wish us luck.

☑️Women are the biggest enemies of women." To what extent do you agree with this statement?

Oh Yes I agree 100% with this statement, because me being a woman does not mean I Will back them up when things are going wrong. The hatred among women this days is becoming so alarming that we don't even hide it anymore, you will see a woman hating her fellow woman, competing because of a guy comparison, or little things that does not even make any sense,and things they see as threat.. women are just unpredicted creatures, that can be shining teeth smiling with eash other now, but deeply is something totally different.

A woman can have whatever thing she need, and still envy her fellow woman who's managing to survive and packing herself just to look good "How's this Act Normal"?. That is more reasons why some women prefer not having friends around them, they like maintaining their own Lane and being themselves without anyone who would bring another person's gossip to you, and probably still take your own gossip to another person, some are professional and supposed to be given award when it comes to jealousy and envy.

☑️For what reasons do women get jealous of each other?

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There are many reasons why women get jealous of each other, but I will just mention few below:

✓INSECURITY: This happens when two women are friends, and one them them got another new friend and her attention is not longer with the other first one, the jealousy would be that the new friend has stolen her friend from her. That's why I said women get angry over little things that does not matters

✓LOOKS /DRESS: This is when competition and comparison comes in, when the other women feels the other is looking good more than her and always getting compliments from people, makes her jealous and feels she does not look good.

✓ACCOMPLISHMENT:When the other person's aim is being carried out and accomplished successful after alot if efforts put through, then the other woman sees it as a threat because she is left behind, and seeing whatever achievement the other one does as a show- off, that's when jealousy arise.

✓RELATIONSHIP: This happens when the relationship between them both differs, I .e the other person's relationship or marriage is moving well and better than others, that makes jealousy occur with no doubt.

☑️If you know any such woman or have any story related to her, then share it with us.

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Absolutely yes ,i do have a story related to a woman called Mrs Celine, she happened to be my neighbor she got married to Mr Denis who happened to be a medical doctor, and they're blessed with 4 children. So Mrs Celine has a friend called mama G who is also married with kids too, she has been jealous of Mrs Celine's marriage and wish it was hers,. She always come over to the house and sees how the husband treats her like a queen though she always feel happy for them in their presence, but deep inside she's not happy with them

So Mama G planned to poison her friend Mrs Celine to death, inorder to divorce her husband to marry Mr Denis, obviously she was cought in the act was arrested. But she keeps saying"it is the handwork of the Devil and jealousy" that she doesn't know what came over her, but unfortunately for her it was late and there was nothing anyone can do to bail her, because it was a murder attempt. In Life whatever you do to hurt someone, always remember the repercussion towards the Acts.

☑️Sometimes women get jealous and harm themselves. To what extent do you agree with this statement?

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I agree with this statement, because women feels they were born to be at the top and no one overtakes them. Any organisation that women tend to be much there, just expecting anything from them, they are capable to do and undo.

A woman always want to be praised and given accolades and not otherwise, whenever another woman seems to be overhead, there's everything involved for the other woman to bring her down immediately, either by fighting her physically, backstabbing her, sending kidnappers or framing lies against her just to tarnish another woman's image and be the best.

I don't even have to worry much about jealous women, because I know they won't change they don't even bother on how to improve themselves, but rather spend their time and energy to be envious of another woman else's success.

Thanks for reading through, I invite @pajewell @dave-hanny @jasminemary @ruthjoe to join this contest.....I love you all.