SEC13 WK5: We are not perfect!

No human is perfect but rather we continue to toe the line of perfection as we strive to be better in society. One good thing about striving for perfection is that it does not level us the way we were before aspiring for change. It rather takes us out from one initial state to another better state and in doing so we assume a new and better state of existence that may not be perfection but excellence.

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As humans, we want almost everything that comes our way to be deserving even if not now but in the future. We have also to remember that human wants are not ever satisfying. When we achieve this goal today, we aspire for the next. In all contentment is the watchword for creating a balance so as not to enter into worrying situations that would make us worse off instead of better off in the end.

Aligning my thoughts to the context of this contest, we should be grateful for our partners. Staying in harmony with a partner who you never know from creation, not bloodline related and you feel it is easy, No!, it is never. It takes extra effort and sacrifice to be able to cohabit. I was listening to one preacher of the gospel online, he mentioned that if we are not ready for marriage, do not go into it. Your privacy isn't as a bachelor or spinster cannot be guaranteed when married and with the kids.

So I could say one of the things I've achieved and wanted in life was to get a good spouse/partner in life. I am happily married to my man and we are also blessed with kids. This is the blessing every home would always anticipate and Almighty made a name for Himself in my home for the harmony and grace to stay as one so far.

Life is full of ups and downs and we just have to be put in our best to know all we do so as to reduce some of the dangers we anticipate. Death is an inevitable end for every being on earth and this is what we will always live with. But there is a consolation for us according to my bible so far we met eternal life. Only what we need to do is to live a righteous life and be sure we are safe.

But in all of this, we do not have to die young but rather after a fulfilled lifetime and in our old age. Just as he promised us in the holy bible that he would satisfy us with long life and our young would die 100 years. This is reassuring each time my fears are before me.

My strength has been on the high hopes and achievement in my home. Harwork and consistency in what I set out to do and the daily management of the home which comes with a lot of responsibilities. My strength has always kept me going in supporting the home to make sure we are rolling as required.

Seeing some of the tasks I execute everyday and perfectly done after setting out my goals keep me going. It is one thing to set out your goals for the day and another to achieve them to your satisfaction. This is one thing that drives me all day; the determination, focus, and I can do it spirit.

My temparament is one flaw I need to work on. I easily get irritated when people around me get me upset either by their careless use of words or undermine my person. I count it and hardly let go in the immediate except over time. This has made me trust less in people so far they are not blood. I cannot just easily believe people or what they do except I'm convinced over time.

I know holding grudge isn't a good act and I've been able to work on myself tremendously over time ti reduce this . So far I have a good outcome in this.

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Just like I mentioned about the issue of grudge I have worked on that real good and I find myself making good improvements on this. I could remember when my mom once told me that she is happy to see me improve on matters of this kind.

I have continued to improve myself by keeping an open mind in all I do and expecting that things would always turn out either for good or bad. This is the best life would offer us , hence there is no need been rigid to concerns around us.

In this light, I will like to invite @shravana, @albenis, and @eveetim to join the contest