Choices! What will it be? #69

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"The power of choices is a power to shape your own destiny"

I woke up in dismay, I was in a state of confusion and I said to myself why is the world this cruel. It was actually a video I saw last night from social media where a maid was caught trying to poison the food which was supposed to be eaten that night by the family, she was caught and asked to eat the food if she claims it is poison free but she refused to show she's guilty. What would someone gain from ending the life of a whole family that have suffered to reach such a point in life.

Her reason for that was that the woman of the house seized her phone, but that's not a good reason to think about clearing off the whole family. I thought to myself what could bring up all these and the first answer that was thrown in my mind was "Emotions", she was deeply controlled by her emotions. This brings a definite answer to my title, what will it be? EMOTIONS!

It is not good to be controlled by emotions because you could do what you will regret. You might be confused at times on what emotion truly is, or you think emotion is just of love only but I have come to bring more clarity on what emotion is.

What are Emotions

Emotions are these feelings which bounces back with respect to a situation or condition. We could see emotions as agents which helps you give reactions to a condition. Sometimes these emotions are involuntary, they just happen and we discover that we didn't aid this emotion.

• How do you feel when you see a cute kitten? You feel this happiness and you smile, what sponsored this emotion? The kitty of cause.
• How do you feel when your Favorite football club loses a match?, you feel depressed and sad all of a sudden.

All these are emotions which waver about depending on the conditions. I will be bringing in the kinds of emotions which we display

Kind of Emotions

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I will love to focus only on two kind of emotions, I will settle it by hitting both the negative and positive emotions.

• Love: I had to list first the greatest form of emotion, this is like the basics to many other kinds of positive emotions. Imagine a who just gave birth, holding her child in her hands and dwelling in happiness and giving out a smile of joy. You would easily noticed what I did there, I mentioned many other kinds of emotions but love as the superior. The mother filled with love for her child looked at her child's face, this brought out other emotions like happiness and joy. Many people easily love, this is one of the easiest and most important emotions because we do most things we do out of Love. Not matter how a person is, in his life he has show an emotion of love.

• Anger: This has been a very disastrous emotion, I would have talked about hate as an opposite of the love I mentioned earlier, but the effect of anger is far above hate. A person can just hate but have nothing to do but any angry person can do far more by ending a person's life. Anger is just state of not being happy, maybe you were moved to that emotion by an event you don't like. The resulting effect has destroyed many peoples life.

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A resulting effect from Anger

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We were always told to control our anger and how we display our emotions, but it never occured to this young man starting a new life, we got the story from their neighbors, it was a very terrible news and I'm sure it all taught everyone a lesson to take home.

This young man lived in a rented apartment which other blocks are also occupied by other tenants, he is know for his meekness as he is very jovial, no one expected this act from him. He has partner not yet his wife but they moved in together, according to rumours they've been together for one and a half years or more. If only they had knew what the week was bringing they would have yielded to advice of their co-tenants.

Early that week they had an argument and I was trying to know the root of the argument but I got no chance because they were all mourning. Their arguments lasted for weeks which usually end in a fight and then a separation by the neighbors. If only we knew that two love birds that proposed love to each other every moment would pick up such a fight we wouldn't have believed. On the day of this happening they argued and fought as usual, the neighbors tried to separate but the man went into their house and locked themselves in, while they were still fighting, the neighbors through the window tried to plead with them but it finally came to an end when the man got the knife from her and stabbed her to death, she was using it as a piece of defense.

This is when he got to his right sense, regrets were running down his spines, he opened the door and wanted to run off but the neighbors caught him and he was taken to the station, that's how they both destroyed their life due to Anger. Anger is dangerous keep off!.

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Cc, @patjewell
It feels good to be back to "choices"

I would love to invite my female friends @precious9, @usoro01 @vudeme123 to take part.