Assalamu Alaikum

Here friends I greet you from Bangladesh @jollymonoara. Today I am going to participate in a beautiful contest of SEC-13 that @steemladies community has selected for us. The contest topic for us this week is the qualities of my life partner which I will write candidly along with the challenge questions.

Man cannot live alone in this world. To survive he has to be dependent on someone at some point so he needs a partner.
This life partner but we can get life partner by following some rules of the society an adult healthy minded person (man and woman ) of two different families get married according to religious norms. This is the simple method and practical rule. Marriage is a sacred relationship because of this sacred relationship man and woman can live happily together till death.

When we choose a life partner, we have some physical and emotional needs. According to that requirement our life partner needs to have some good qualities and we want it in our hearts that he/she always has good qualities, no bad habits or bad qualities I/we never expect.

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So I also hope my life partner has good qualities.
Its good qualities in my life part that I see all the time and I fill it-

• First of all, his best quality is that he is a well-hearted person and knows how to give and receive love. He is a very caring husband and trusting.

• I have never seen hypocrisy in him, he respects me enough and he is very honest and sincere he never spoils the rights of others. As soon as he got his salary, he paid off the debts of the creditors first.

• I never mistrust him as he is hardworking and a man of good character.

• One of his best qualities is that he understands my mind language so he knows how to understand what I need before I ask him. It can be called telepathy.

• Another good quality of his is his memory power and His thinking power is sharp, which he can remember many things.

• He reads a lot and He also likes to travel to new countries and tries to learn a lot so officially any instant problem he hears and solves it instantly which I find quite amazing.

The most important thing is that he loves me enough and takes good care of me, he is trustworthy and respectful and he is also a good friend of mine. By the grace of Allah I am living very happily and peacefully with such a friendly cheerful and romantic life partner and want to spend the rest of my life with him.

After having so many good qualities, people still have some bad qualities which cause unrest.

His bad qualities are –

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It is normal for a person to be angry. But he gets so angry that when he gets too angry, he does the opposite. He can't control his anger so he treats me very bad sometimes. I am sometimes very patient with this anger. So I try not to anger him too much. Because I want peace, not war.

Due to this anger in student life in twelfth class, he was often absent in maths class because he was angry with the maths teacher so he did not get 80% marks in mathematics which he tells me today and this story.

This anger made him miss out on many things such as his desire to become a pilot which he did not become.

One quality I want to change is his excessive anger. Although he has now learned to control his anger a lot. So I don't have any problem with this anger. However, one more bad habit of his is that he spends all his free time with Mobile. I think Mobile is the bank in its world news store, where all the news and entertainment of the world are available.He doesn't give me time to overuse this mobile. I want to break his mobile phone. After working on the computer screen all day at the office, I get very angry when he is at home with his mobile phone.

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I told him a lot to quit smoking in future will be very bad for health.
I love him very much so I wish him good health. If he is healthy then my family will be healthy and normal.

I stopped him and prayed to Allah every day when I was tired, to give up smoking at any rate.

One day the creator gave a wonderful gift that is -

One day a woman gifted him a box of cigarette packets. It was written on the packet, As long as you live healthy, your family can live healthy as well.

This word was very scarred in his mind that if I do not live, what will be the future of my child? , thinking about his two children and his wife, from that day he never picked up a cigarette again.

Stop smoking.

One of his words about cigarettes I liked very much was that what I spit out can never be put in my mouth again, so I will not put this cigarette in my mouth anywhere.

Since 2014, he has refrained from this bad habit.

I want to invite my friends -@rashidaakter @karobiamin71 and @afrinn.