Steemit engagement challenge season 16 w3 //Raising boys and girls”

in hive-168072 •  8 months ago 

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In this 21st century girl children are the one taking care of the house, in the olden days girl children were not allowed to go to school, they said they end up in the kitchen and our parents spend their resources in sending only the male children to school then send the female children to marriage. But I thank God things have changed, the world now resolved around female children.

I am a sweet young mother of 4 lovely kids 3 handsome boys and a beautiful out spoken daughter.

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My answer will be on different illustration about raising the boy child different from the girl child. For the topic I mesola will be saying yes, that the girl child should be raised differently than boys child.

I thought all my children both the boys and girl how to be strong, how they can stand up for the truth, to be thinkers, how they can be kind and loving, generous and forgiving children. How they can always use their minds. How they can always remember to enjoy life and not just working towards some ultimate goal and forget about living in the day also.

Unfortunately I don't raise my daughter to be a little differently from my boys.

I want all my children ( boy and girl) to learn to be good people. Strong people. They should get prepared for the world as it stands expercially now that the economy system is bad.

I can remember when I start giving birth and some of my friends talk to me that I should be buying pink dress for my daughter that pink represents softness and that my daughter needs to be soft and she shouldn't behave like the boys that is in their blood for them to be tougher, and I said to myself how can a girl be trained with the boys be soft, if she is soft if so the boys will maltreat her knowing that she is a weaker person and that will make her cry, and I said to myself that my daughter can't be crying that she need to be prepared for what ever that comes her way.

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In the space of them taking care of themselves, they can do it, there's nothing like I am treating this one special because he is a male child, no, the same discipline I give to my girl is the same discipline I give to my boys though that of a girl will be mild.

My four kids are all the same for example, put my boys in the kitchen, they cook as if they are girls, put them in house chores, they will deliver perfectly well.

They only thing is that I have given my daughter enough space than the boys, in my family there is nothing like I am a male child so all the properties belong to us, no instead of my property belongings to my male child it's rather belong to my girl child.

That aspect of is the male child that bears the family and because of that I need to treat them special than my girl child is not welcome in my house.

They only thing I do accept is that my girl doesn't insult the boys.

So friends let's try and change the narrative of putting more effort in the life of the male child than that of the girl child.
Like me I treat my daughter special more than the boys but the different is not much.
Please I will love to invite my friends @chant @saboohi and @waterjoe

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Thank you so much my dear friend

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My dear friend you have shared your point of view about the topic and strongly explained it with good examples, well both should be brought up in a good way they should be morally strong and there is no discrimination in their minds. Hence you are cute mom who brought up their children in a good way and teach your children the good way, send them kitchen and their is no gender discrimination there.

Good luck

Saludos amiga, unos cría los hijos, se le da la mejor educación en el hogar, basado en principios y valores, pero luego que salen al ruedo ellos comienzan a conocer más, e allí cuando ellos deciden si seguir el legado de los padres o cambian de camino. Pero hay algo muy importante nunca se les olvidaran lo que le has enseñado e inculcado

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Thank you for participating in the Steemit Engagement Challenge Season 16 in the Steem For Ladies Community.

Be it a boy or a girl, both should respect each other because both are important for the society.

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Your points are well thought out. There are some obvious doa0aroty between them. All we.need to do wiboit creating an abvious inequality is to create a balance balance then expecially in their weekness. Success to you