Choices! What will it be? #74

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This is my participation in contest” Choices! What will it be? #74 by @patjewell

DOUBT

Doubt is a word which can lead to many big consequences. In life, we should always maintain clarity in our relations. There should be no scope for doubt. But in everyday life, due to the flexibility of human nature and mental instability, there are always situations of doubt.

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There can be many reasons for this, for example, suppose you do not have full faith in your ability and are participating in a competition or completing a task. If you are doing it with full dedication and devotion, then there should not be any kind of doubt in your mind.

You should always work with the mindset that you will be the winner or you will be the only one who will be able to take this work to the final stage successfully. Because any thought of doubt can affect our ability and our capacity.

Now, if we talk about our life, then there are many situations in our life when we have doubts about something, or we do not understand what the other person is saying, then in such a situation, we should immediately resolve our doubts.

Otherwise this doubt can grow bigger and become the reason for a big accident. I can explain my point by giving not one but two examples.

The wife of one of my friends belonged to a poor family, she was also very beautiful, my friend had an ordinary appearance in comparison to her, and when the wife is very beautiful then the husband becomes a little suspicious, he always has this doubt that someone might snatch away his beautiful wife from him.

And my friend also had such doubts. A brother of his wife's relative needed some money, my friend had never seen this brother. My friend's wife wanted to help her brother secretly without telling her husband, and she went to meet him in the park and helped him by giving him money.

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That brother hugged his sister and thanked her. But at the same time my friend was also passing by, he saw this scene and he thought that this is some lover of his wife.

But he did not take any explanation from his wife, he just kept sulking in his mind and the life of both of them started getting ruined. Then after about 3 years when the same brother became capable, he came to return his sister's money, then my friend was also at home and he came to know the truth.

He was very ashamed and he asked his wife for forgiveness but their golden 3 years were ruined.. and there was a crack in their hearts too, which could not be repaired.

Many people might have heard the second scene, a woman had a 3 month old newborn baby, and she also had a very loyal dog. The woman often used to leave her child in the care of the dog and go to finish her work.

One day when she reached home after finishing her work, she saw that there was blood on the dog's face, she immediately suspected that today the dog might have killed and eaten her child and in anger, without thinking, she shot her dog. The dog died there.

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When the woman reached inside, she saw that her child was safe and a mutilated body of a snake was lying there. Actually that snake was about to bite the child and the dog killed it by risking its life and saved the child. When the woman came to know the reality, she regretted a lot, but what could be done now.

That is why my suggestion is that whenever there is any doubt on someone's words or behavior, it should be cleared otherwise doubt has ruined many lives.

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@naka05
@haidee
@naty16
@leudi

Thanks for reading my post, I pray to God for the progress and happy future of all Steemians

With Great love and honour,

Sur-riti❤️

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Thank you for participating…..

Your unintentional doubts were very good. In fact, one doubt is enough to ruin the whole life. The relationship should be so strong that there is no room for doubt, but this doubt has a lot of power.

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Thanks for your nice assessment and comments.

I have learned in life that there is good and bad to doubt.
Good that so often it makes us stop and look at things from all angles before we make the decision. Bad as what you have shown through your two stories. It can either "eat us up" from the inside with time or it can make us act wrongly.

In the end, we can all admit that doubt is a pretty natural part of life and we have to learn to embrace it in the right manner.

Best wishes!

Hello respected madam,

When you said that doubting can be good, then how can I doubt this. This is how we keep learning in our life. Best wishes to you too.

With thanks.

Thank you! Best wishes to you also. ☕