Being single isn’t a crime or out of place. But it shouldn’t be because of one’s bad character.

Hello my fellow steemians. Hope we’re doing okay today. It’s another week to talk on an interesting topic as this. I’d like to @thank @ninapenda for organising this beautiful contest here.

It’s worth spending time alone and discovering things about yourself. It also affords you time to build yourself on whatever you’d like to excel in. But is there another side to this? Let’s find out.

As forementioned, there are side attractions of being single, and thy include:

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Discovery: Being all by yourself is a great time to get to know yourself better, determine the kind of future and life you want, and plan for it. Self-actualization is very important in becoming great for yourself. Thus, it's necessary to know who you are.

It all depends. If the character of a lady isn’t what is needed for a sustainable relationship that’d lead to marriage, then it could be their fault.

So many young people are so occupied with one thing or the other that they tend to forget the importance of relationship with someone.

If a person is too occupied to know the common importance of respect for one another, then it could be a problem.

Also, time management is of essence. People should learn to manage their time to also make time for other important things, like attending to a person’s need.

Effective communication is another important key in determining a relationship. If a lady or a guy finds it difficult to communicate, it’s in their place to decide their state.
All these wrapped up can be a guy's or a lady's reason for being single, if they can't work these out.

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It’s as simple as knowing what you want at a time. Getting off singlehood should be thoroughly thought through. Sometimes, even emotions and feelings are not enough to get off singlehood.

Discernment is needed, and your ability to cope with whoever you intend to start a journey with. No one should be compelled or pressured to leave single living. Take your time and make no mistakes.

I’ve heard someone say being beautiful isn’t being attractive. What attracts you to a person keeps you longer than the beauty on the outside. This may work both ways, though.

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For instance, if a lady is attracted to a guy because of his wisdom, that’d sustain that relationship because the guy is always available to give advice.

But if she’s there because of the outer appearance, that beauty or appearance will fade sooner or later. So, let what attracts you be your beauty in that person, and let the beauty you see attract you to that person.

There’s a popular saying that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. It therefore posits the fact that, as long as there’s an attraction, the beauty can only be seen by that person being attracted.

In conclusion, beauty and attraction should work hand in hand to start, build and keep a relationship.

Would like to invite @hudamalik20, @uduak01 and @sur-riti to participate in tgis contest.

Thanks for reading through.