#burnsteem25-Steemit Engagement Challenge S3:W4 - Three things I'd change about myself, and three things I'd keep by @nadeesew

Hi dear friends,

First of all I feel really happy to engage in this competition. I thank the community for giving this topic to express my ideas. There are many things in my life that I love to keep and that I love to change. I feel that I could go for a good progress in my life if I keep several things and if I change few things. So from my post I would like to share those with me.

THINGS THAT I LIKE TO CHANGE

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Fake friends

• The first thing that I change is my fake friends. From my childhood I had many friends among them there were fake friends who showed me that they are real but actually they are not real. So I will keep away from those fake friends. I hve helped many of my friends in their needs. Some times I have financially helped my friends without even asking the date that they give me my money back. I feel if I change them I can go forward mentally fit. When taking decisions they take my assistance and my help but never admire my efforts. These fake friends are a headache for me. I love my real friends who are in need and they are the friends indeed.

Work shits

• The next thing if I get a chance I will change is my shifts of work. In my occupation now I have hard shifts which is sometimes difficult for me. As I work infront of the computer for many hours I have got poor eye sight now and had to wear spectacles. I like to change my work shifts to make my working easier. I have day shifts and night shifts. There are some instances which really need to be at home but I was working. Specially when my mom becomes sick only my sister has to take care of her as I'm working.I have made requests from my HR department to change the work shifts. So I love changing my work shifts.

My Anger

• I'm a hot tempered person. I think it has come from my work life. I have a big work load to do and also there are thousands of people working under me. In cases which I feel is not good or if others under me don't listen to my orders I feel angry and I shout at them. I don't actually shout at people. So I will change that in my life. I know it is not good to shout at your workers. Sometimes my workers feel sad when I'm shouting. So I will definitely change my emotion of feeling angry soon.

THINGS THAT I LIKE TO KEEP

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Selflessness

• I have got good qualities from my parents. I really like my quality of selflessness. Many people are selfish nowadays. But I'm selfless I have nothing to be worried about that others are having. So always I love giving rather than keeping. I have my lovely sister. So I always share things with her and even my mother. If I have something I like to share it with others. It can be atasty food, a beautiful dress or gift vouchers I will share it without being selfish. I earn for me and that is enough for me to live. So I don't want to be selfish. This quality will improve my qualities and head to progress in my life.

Helpfullness

• As you know I have shared by my posts that I help needed people and carry on some charity work from my personal money. There are few families that I have choosen to help in my area. There are children who are still small and are still schooling. So I help them with what they need for schooling. I buy them grocery items to use for a month and school work I continuously monitor. I think this helpfullness is a blessing that I got from my father. He is also just like me and he loves helping others. I also don't have much money. I work for a monthly salry. From the salary I feed my family, I save for me, I enjoy with thhe family and I help other financially to the extent that I can.

Love towards family

• Girls are always bonded to the family. I also work and I eran but the most importnat thing for me is spending time with my family. When ever I get a free time I like to be with my family and enjoy with them. We go for dinner outs, we prepare new dishes and also we go shopping together. I'm very much bonded to my family. There are children who like being away from the families and they enjoy only with outsiders and friends. But in my case I have an unconditional love towards my family which will never fade away. Among children who love being apart from the families I'm proud that I love my family a lot. The blessings of my family is always with me and that's why I'm an executive member today in my career. Family blessing matters a lot for me.

This is the end of my post. I would like to invite my friends @goodybest , @mrsokal and @chant to take part in the contest. Thank you for reading my post. Have a good day.