#Burnsteem25 || Steemit Engagement Challenge S3:W4 - Three things I'd change about myself, and three things I'd keep by @negro-bby

Good day everybody, my name is oluwatimileyin and I am happy to participate in this community and joined the engagement contest theme of Three things I'd change about myself, and three things I'd keep.

Firstly , let me discussed three things I would like to change , then after that, I could discuss the three things I would like to keep doing.

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Three things I'd change about myself, and three things I'd keep

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The three things I could like to change about my self are ;

• My Hot Temper

• Getting Revenge

• Doubts.

Hot Temper - What I know about myself is that I like to get angry easily, I don't like been tamper with unnecessarily, so in such case I fuse out anger on anyone trespassing my boundary.

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I am a gentle soul, whereby I just don't like it when people take advantage of that and use it against me, I do take people disastrous , but when it gets to a point which I can no longer hold it, I lash out, I hope to change this as I believe I could as well choose not to respond at all.

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Getting Revenged - I never let things slide, I am the type of person that will surely do my own back, thou some people might preach that revenge is not the best option that forgiveness is better, but I don't mostly feel that way , in such case , when you do me bad, I made sure to do mine in the same way you hurt me too.

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Even though some people deserve it, but have been hearing that the best version of revenge is to forgive those who did us badly, well, I have been trying to move past this as well, as I had already have it listed to things I would like to change about myself.

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Doubts - This is one part of me that has been eating me out lately, I do get doubts on myself easily this days or doubts what I am doing whether it is working or not and this mostly occur when what I am doing is not getting profitable or the result is not yielding to position, sometimes I do understand that it is just a rough patch, but sometimes , my doubt eat most part of me , making me doubt my action.

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Well, I hope the change my level of doubts someday, thou I believe it is normal for every man to have some fear in their decision, as sometimes when things do not work out in a way we wanted it to, we tends to succumb to doubt and it get the most part of us.

These are the three things I had like to change about myself, and I believe I have been walking towards achieving such goal, as one way or the other, this are really eating most good part of me, but I guess that what makes me a human.

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The three things I would like to keep doing.

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I have explained the three things I would like to change about myself, now, here are the three things I would like to keep.

• Joyful

• Enthusiastic

• Caring for others.

Joyful - Yes, I am a joyful person, I love been happy and I as well love getting people around me to be happy, this is one of my great personality as I have always look for joy in things I do, I do this with no regrets and I could go million of miles in as long as I am doing it for what makes me happy.

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Happiness is a cure, it's something everyone needs in their life, it's a food for the soul, it keep you all freshen up, you look calm and you will likely to be attractive to positive energy, I love all the things that comes with me with the way I am always happy, this is a personality I would like to keep about myself as I believe in one way or the other, we all deserved some happiness.

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Enthusiastic - I am so passionate in things I do, I am enthusiastic, and sometimes when I gets discouraged about some certain things, I remember why I started in the first place, which in this case, I strive further to make things better for my enthusiasm energy, whenever I develop a passion or interest for something, I give all my energy to it and I make sure I success doing that.

Enthusiasm only comes with things you believe In, with my level of consistency and striving to succeed , it has always been great for me , as most times , I don't do things just because my parents asked me to or because everyone is doing it , I do it because I loved it and would like to participate in it, so there is where my enthusiasm comes in, as in some cases when it gets difficult, with my enthusiasm, I get to always strive harder and make sure that I succeed in it by all means, this is one thing I enjoy about myself the most.

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Caring for others - This is a unique character about me that I wish it will never stop, I love people, I love the idea of caring about people around me, and mostly, I love babies, babies makes my soul giggles, the idea that they are small makes it so easy for me to love them, growing up, I was blessed with so much attention from my parent as such case, I don't find it difficult blending with people and as well showing them love and care.

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I am the type of person that love and care about people easily, even when people ask me to stay away from them, but just because It's in my gene to care about them, I had always wanted to listen to what's making them sad, hear them out, and wish things gets better for them, this is one of my unique character as Ioved to always shown care and attention to everyone around, and as well make them feel loved.

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conclusion

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Thank you everyone for reading through, it's of great idea to discuss what we love about ourselves,there are things about us that we can not change, as everyone has the bad and good part of them, but I believe we could control how we react to things at times.

Sometimes, people tends to take advantage of our unique character,but the truth is people will always be people, one things that could only be changed is you letting forego of the past so as to move on, I hope to get better in the habits of revenge and hot temper as well, and I hope people having this traits as well try and forgive of some certain situation as well.

I Invites @yakspeace, @badmus-official to participate in the contest.