Hello Friends,
I hope you are well, it is a pleasure for me to share this information with each of you.
Currently many young people resort to marriage, however they do not last long, their marriage fails, because most begin to have problems, and quickly go to separation or divorce, they do not look for a solution to maintain the marriage, they simply say it did not work and already, we were not compatible, one to the other!, then we could conclude, that there was no true love on the part of both spouses.
But is it possible that two people can live together for so long? The answer is yes! and an example of this are my parents, on May 29 of this year we celebrated the 50th anniversary as a family, what we know by the golden anniversary. It is admirable to see two beings who love and show love to each other. I asked my father what the secret was to succeeding in marriage and he wisely replied that there are three keys, or fundamental factors, to having a lasting marriage.
The first key: Love.
As a couple we have to cultivate love, and feed it with pleasant words, with expressions of affection, with details that although they are small, and very simple they always fall in love, living every day as if they were boyfriends.
The second key.
Treat our partner with consideration with respect for their dignity, and opinion, be willing to please them in what is reasonable, always consider what is best for their partner, each must respect the criteria, and taste of the other, respect the dignity of their spouse, not making it the object of unpleasant comments or in public, or in private.
Third key: communication
My father mentioned to me that good communication is very important in marriage, because it makes for a better relationship, but it has to be tactful, not harsh words and use an appropriate tone of voice, and treat each other with tenderness.
In marriage there will always be problems, but you have to try to solve them together, and come to harmonious conclusions. If there is good communication, you will both feel free to do, know your needs, and be able to help each other, and support each other.
And these were the valuable advice of my father, three fundamental keys, which has resulted for them during the 50 years of happy marriage.
If we want to have a lasting marriage, let's not hesitate to apply these three keys.
