Do you believe in sayings that "The More You Hate, The More You Love?" It's crazy sayings, right? How will you love someone you hated most? Where you can love, the one you like most. I guess the Cupid is lazy to find you another match, that he just persists to target your enemy to you.

In my case, I thank that cupid. His laziness brings me to the right man. I imagine myself if he is not my partner now and let's say I ended up with my crush, for sure we broke up so long because he will not understand me and my anxiety.

My mortal enemy saves me from loneliness. He brings out my confidence and makes me feel that I have worth.

These 3 questions that I answered from the very first contest I joined, will summarize everything.

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How did you and your partner meet?

It was back in the year 2017 when I decided to resign from my work and go back to study because that was really the plan, I will work to get enough savings and go to college. But you know enough is not sufficient when entering college, there is a lot of expenses, awaits. Being bullied by relatives is one of the reasons why I push myself to have a degree. They make me feel that I will not grow so they can forever look me down. Thanks to God, He never neglected me and guide me to the right path that leads me to meet, the mortal enemy who change my life.

I met Ej when we were in college. He was my classmate back then. I didn't notice him in our first year because I'm busy in my side hustles that I don't have time to get close to my classmates. However, in our second year, my ears caught his attention. It was our vacant time when he and our other guy classmate laughed so loud at the back, which disturbs my sleep. I told them to lower their voice but they didn't listen. Even I'm so fed I leave them.

As the day goes by, he started to tease me. He loves to see me pissed. He always laughs and bluffs in everything like he doesn't have any problems. I get annoyed every time I see him. He is so insensitive that never thinks about others' feelings, but I judged him so quickly. He said his intention is to make me laugh because he always sees my brows meet but turns out I get mad worst. Haha.

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How does your first date go?

It was so awkward! We have no topic to talk about in person, but we blab so much in chat. It was mixed emotion, I get annoyed but I want to laugh haha. He's trying his best to make me impress. He is very different at that time unlike before that he laughs even there's nothing funny. He acts so seriously. I asked him why his silent, he said he doesn't want me to get angry. Grrrrr! I want to tweak his hair after hearing it. Then he adds he is nervous. Hahaha! I laughed so hard that I pat his shoulder very hard.

I told him I don't bite. Raaawr! Hahaha. By the way, I'm his first girlfriend hehe

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What is your memorable date or travel together?

The very best date we had is when he brought and introduced me to their house to meet his parents and relatives. They welcome me so warmly like I'm a part of their family. I didn't sense any judgment with their action. Suddenly, I felt pity and envious, like why I need to feel the warmth acceptance from others while my relatives make me feel I don't belong to their bloodline. Maybe because I don't have money. Hehe. Ej is so lucky. No wonder why he's always happy. His environment has a lot of positivity.

Travel? We haven't still tried it, but hopefully this year. I want to go to the beach with him.

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Even our first encounter was not that good, we still found the way to the heart of each other. In fact, we're going to celebrate our 2nd anniversary next month. Yieeee! From Mortal Enemy to Love Eternity. Hehe.

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This is my entry to the Steemit Major Contest. I invite @junebride @bloghound @olivia08 to do this challenge too :)

Till next time (✿◠‿◠)

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All photos are mine and edited in Canva