Hello friends, how are you all doing today, hope that you people will be fine and doing great in life. @mostofajaman have organized a contest about life journey, the journey from where your real life adulthood starts, your unbiased suggestions and participation starts.

"Marriage"

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• How do you feel about attending a wedding event at a relative's wedding?

Attending wedding is a fun, whoever wedding it is, there are a lot of dishes for you to eat, you meet people; greet them, interact with new people, make friendship and bring happiness to the ceremony. Attending relative's wedding is a great time for you to enjoy, you meet your all family members, talk to them and discuss things. Interaction is a good thing, you learn about others. In relative's wedding, you help your relatives to conduct the wedding in a great manner, your contribution is involved setting the system. Elders involvement guide the youngers to handle the responsibilities. For them you are a family and they needs you in these ceremony's, for relatives other family members is a feeling of proud and they need your help and involvement in this situation.

So, I will say attending a family wedding is a blessing, distribution of emotions, duties, family obligations, family bonding increases, a celebration and in last you enjoy a great feast.

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• How many wedding events have you attended and share your feelings and experiences there?

This is a tough question, first I don't remember most of them and I also don't how many have I attended in my life. There are also other weddings which were not of relatives but I have attended them for food hahaha.

So, I will talk about the last 2 to 3 weddings which I have attended, in real I have attended more than 10 weddings but these are some weddings which were done recent and I have attended them. Weddings are really great but their are some instances which you will hate about it. It is a wonderful ceremony, I have really enjoyed all of the weddings. I was having a fun time with my family members, we sat on one table discussed some great things with each other and ate some great type of food.

The worst thing of marriages are doing work; I like to help my family members but due this work your clean and neat clothes gets dirty, when delivering the food dishes to the tables of guests. We use to work as a waiters in village marriages where these accessibilities are not available. Moreover, setting the system gets you very tired and in villages there is difficulty in resting areas because your place is occupied by guests. But with these issues still village weddings are wonderful because these are the wedding which you remember for long time and it becomes a wonderful memory.

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• If you are married, how was your wedding event completed? If not, how do you plan to complete the event? Tell us about your future plans.

• Unfortunately, I am not married but for some people's life I am fortunately not married haha. I don't know about my future plans because you don't know about your future, you are just preparing for it; struggling in life to make something out of it but you don't know what is gonna happen tomorrow and after that. My preparation and planning for wedding is that, first I am financially stable in which I can support my partner financially, moreover, I am able to run my home financially and have unbiased mentality to operate in the home.

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• Further, I will say marrying a good women with good manners will be wonderful, modest and descent.

• If you have any customs or traditions of your family or area at wedding events, please share them with us.

Yes, we have traditions in our wedding. It includes, buying clothes for the elders of the partner's family, for both males and females. Moreover, gifts before marriage and, visits and interaction between families. I will suggest that Islamic traditions should be made our traditions, some cultural traditions are fine which brings no problems to any of the family. The dowry system should be ended and whatever girl's father offer to her as a gift should be followed.

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