Better Life /The Diary game (29 August 2024)My lifestyle.steemCreated with Sketch.

in hive-170554 •  3 months ago  (edited)

Assalamu Alaikum.

I am Farzana. I am from Bangladesh.


How are you guys?? Hope everyone is well by the grace of Almighty Allah. Alhamdulillah I am fine with my family. It's hard to be good these days. While modern life has made life easier, it has also made it harder to be good. Modernity and advanced technology have greatly influenced the lives of women in the city. But very little in the village. Let us hear today how village women like me live.

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I am a village housewife. My two sons live in a joint family with their husband and mother-in-law. Today we still haven't come out of the nineties. Even today, we have to wake up early in the morning to sweep the house, wash the dishes, and cook. Cooking should be done in clay oven. Dry leaves, licorice should be dried and stored. The house has a gas stove. But it is only used to heat food. If you want, you can't cook on a gas stove because of the fear of your mother-in-law.

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Most of the houses in our village are made of mud. There are few brick houses. Our house is also made of mud. I don't know what to say. Many city dwellers see mud houses differently. But only those who live in mud houses know the origin of rats and various other disturbances. I have a dream, one day we will have a house made of bricks. Will the dream come true?

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We village women are no less busy than working women. Rather, I am a little more busy than them. I work from morning till night. Cooking, washing clothes, washing dishes, taking care of cows and goats, taking care of poultry, watching children and many more. Do you know what is a big sad thing? After we village wives do so much all day, she just gets ignored. Don't do any work after sleeping and listening to the donkey. Sitting down to eat and all the small pieces of fish fell to our fate. Everyone needs to eat well and eat less. Then we are the mercy of the world.

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In this era of globalization we do all the work with our mouths closed for fear of mother-in-law. I bear all the insults. We don't get full support from our closest people. After getting higher education he can't get any good job just because of lack of support. Never gets the respect it deserves. Are we human or just needs?? I think every night, what is the meaning of my life? who am i Do I have my own? Who is my own?? How will our lives continue??

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My words may not be very important. I am very common among people. This is the life story of millions of women like me. I don't know how you feel. Wishing everyone good health, I am ending my blog today.

Allah is Hafiz.

Thanks everyone.

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শুভেচ্ছা বন্ধু @farzana01, আপনার পোস্ট কোয়ালিটি আরও উন্নত করা প্রয়োজন। একটি ডায়েরীগেম পোস্টে কাটানো দিনটির ভিন্ন সময়ের কিছু কর্মকান্ডের ফটো শেয়ার করে সেই অনুযায়ী সমস্তদিনের কার্যক্রম উপস্থাপন করতে হয়। আমি আপনাকে অন্যান্য ব্যবহারকারী পোস্ট ভিজিট করার জন্য অনুরোধ জানাচ্ছি। এতে আপনি ভালো পোস্ট করার ধারণা পাবেন।

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Your meals looks delicious 😋
I am sure your life will find great meaning soon and you will be glad you had those processes to learn from