What to do for him who does not value my words?

A person who doesn't value your words is a situation in many people's lives. It can be very frustrating and painful. But what to do in such a situation will depend on your relationship with the person, the importance of the situation and what kind of outcome you expect. Steps you can take:

• Talk directly: The best way is to talk to the person directly. Calmly and clearly tell him that you are troubled by his behavior and ask that he listen to you.

• • Find the root cause of the problem: You may think the person is not listening to you, but in fact they are not understanding you. Try to find the root cause of the problem.

• • Make your expectations clear: Be clear about what you expect. For example, you want him to value your opinion, spend time with you, or understand your feelings.

• • Set limits: Decide for yourself how much you can tolerate. If the person doesn't treat you well, it may be better to cut back or cut ties altogether.

• • Focus on yourself: maintain your worth and independence. Spend time with people you feel respect and love for.

• • Seek help: If you cannot handle the situation alone, seek help from a friend, family member or therapist.
• Remember:
• Your feelings are valid.

• You deserve to be heard.

• You should try your hardest for your happiness.
Some questions you can ask yourself:
• Why am I trying so hard to get value from this person?

• Am I getting what I want from this relationship?

• Could there be someone better for me?
Trying to find the answers to these questions will help you make the right decision for yourself.
• An example for you:
Suppose your friend never spends time with you and never listens to you. You can talk to him directly about this situation and say, "I notice that you never spend time with me. I feel bad. I want you to listen to me and we can have a better relationship."
Remember, you are not alone. Many have gone through such a situation.
Good luck to you.