Stay Single & Make Women Chase( Steemit Dating Advice Part - 1 )

What's good with y'all, man? Hope you're having a good, productive day. It's about to get even better with this blog, I promise you. Now, women are more attached to men who are comfortable being single because they're able to go without. All right, I'm going to explain why.

See, a guy also commented — it's funny, he commented, he was like, "Oh, bro, but I can't go that long without getting some box." Who said that being single means you don't have access to women? If anything, guys, being single for an extended period of time is only going to increase your value to women. If you didn't fall for the trap outside of high school, outside of college, what do you see a lot of guys doing? They get tied into relationships, jump into marriage with their high school sweetheart, college sweetheart. Those don't even last five years. Typically, they don't even last five years before hypergamy kicks in, or before she gets bored and wants to step outside again because her time horizon is coming. By the time they hit 28, bro, they're hitting a climax — hopefully with you, but I'd rather you keep it at that. You can take your time, all right? You can take your time; you see what this chick is about. You don't rush into a relationship, and you definitely don't rush into marriage. She better be signing prenups and all the necessary things that you’ve got to pull out in all cases, all right? You better have a plan B in action for your pullout game and a plan B for your finances, period. It doesn't even have to go there.

First, you need to stay single. Stay single as long as you can. Some of us might be on this journey longer than others, and that's cool. You can't be in a rush to find that diamond in the rough because she's going to have to present herself. Guys are getting too caught up in this romance vibe, all right? Too many men are getting real soft, like, "Oh, I really just want a woman to watch Disney movies with, and I just want to cuddle up." Bro, relax. You have worth to build as a man. You have to build yourself up; that's how we create our value.

Listen, staying single outside of high school and college, throughout your 20s, getting involved with certain chicks but keeping it casual — that's fine. If you want a relationship, if you want to build a family at some point, let it come to you. Let the right one come to you. You shouldn't be in a rush for it. You can have it anytime you want. Even if you're the type of dude that wants kids — you feel me? A chick came up to me the other day and was like, "You know, I know what you do, but when do you see yourself having a family and kids?" Here's what I told her. I said, "In a perfect world, I'd love to have two sons. It can still happen." She interrupted me, so I almost backhanded her — just joking. But, yeah, she's 29, going on 30, saying, "Oh, you should probably hop on that soon because you never know." I'm like, "Well, here's the thing. I have no problem attracting younger women." They look at me like I'm still 25, 24 — nothing's changed but a beard. I still look the same. That's number one.

So, you stay healthy, stay in the gym, stay in shape, eat right, and you can keep your longevity and youthfulness for a long time. Guys, we hit our prime physically at 28. We can keep it going all the way through our 30s, 40s, even 50s and 60s. We're going to see how it goes. We do the best we can, but you can always go back, find a solid chick, and have kids whenever you want. Women, on the other hand — this is what I had to tell her because she's almost 30. I'm like, "We're not the same." A lot of women are convinced that men and women are the same. We can stay single forever and just do what we want as we continue to build our value. Stay single in your 20s, stay on your grind. Stay single in your 30s, stay on your grind.

This whole time, you're building your value, your net worth, your capabilities as a man. Because even when you want to start that family, guess what? You need to have leadership skills, to be able to protect and provide. That's not the same for a woman. I told her, "Hey, you could sit back, pop some babies out, and be a stay-at-home mom for the rest of your life." Whoopee-doo. As a man, you have to be able to protect, provide, and handle everything if something pops off. So, becoming the best version of yourself is a requirement as a man.

Why would you be in a rush to step up to that level if you're not ready? So, don't do it if you're not ready. Take your time, build your value, let women come and go. I'm telling you, if you keep that up, I don't see the point of guys saying, "But I really want..." Bro, if you stay in the gym, get your body on point, look good, and step outside every now and then, women will choose you. You don’t have to be in a relationship to get some box. We're not dealing with traditional women — they market themselves. Any good-looking, successful man with charisma can finesse his way in.

If you're working towards being that guy, any man can do that. Even if you’re supremely unattractive, guess what? There's an avenue for you. A man who's fit, works hard, and presents himself well will be attractive to women. Masculine energy is magnetic. There will be women who vibe with you, find you attractive, and want you. Just because you're single doesn't mean you won't have access. And worst-case scenario, if you have your finances right, you can still get it.

There's no excuse for any man to not have access if that’s what he's looking for. If you’re looking for a wife, though, take your time. Staying single will be the best thing for you. If you're comfortable with yourself, if you're cool with being alone, a woman will want to make a home with you when the time is right. So take your time. I don’t see any disadvantage for a man who is grinding toward his best future. Focused, ambitious men can’t lose.

Enjoy being single. Use your time wisely, make money, and stay selfish with your time. The time you do give to women will be on your terms, not the other way around. Y'all be easy, man. We're locked in on this, going from zero to hero every day. Keep stacking up those days, kings. You know what I'm saying? Just keep winning.