EVER WONDERED IF YOUR BIRTH ORDER HAS GOT ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE WAY YOUR LIFE TURNS OUT?

Birth order is simply understanding your place or position in the family line. Let's say we're you born first? ,Second?, Third? Forth? Or any number according to the number of children you are in your family.
There is usually no greater influence during someone's growing up years than their family. Even though there are times we spend in school,little leagues etc, all that is jxt a drop in the bucket according to what goes on at home.

During the early years, our parents and siblings(incase of any) make a significant phsychological imprint affecting our personality.
The family influence tends to persist through the years and across the miles as we grow up and move away. The most intimate relationship s in life are with our families, the one you grew up in and the one you make for yourself through marriage.however the family you grew up in has the inside track.
Living in a family is a unique and distinctive experience.the intimate relationships that develop in the family can be found nowhere else on this planet. And these relationships are created in great part by one's order of birth.
The relationships between us and our parents is fluid, dynamic( can change) and all important. Everytime a child is born, the entire family environment changes ..The way parents interact with each child as he or she enters the family circle determines highly the child's destiny.

The Birth order theory and what it has got to do with the way your life turns out is Abit complex( not so very easy to understand) however various studies have prooved it to be true and it has somehow been validated. I want to draw each one of your attention and explain it alot more probably relating to our everyday lives..
Let's look at a few categories of people such as the first borns, middle borns, and the last borns.

FIRST BORNS
These are children that are born first in their families. they are usually perfectionists, reliable, well organized, serious and natural leaders. First borns usually turn out to be achievers in life because they grow up with too much pressure. Everyone emphasizes that they should be live examples to their siblings.they usually try to get everything done in just the right way. In most cultures moreso here in Africa,if let's say a first born girl who was still schooling got pregnant and fails to finish school, the whole society begins to throw insults and go ahead to emphasize that the siblings will follow suit..some parents become devastated and immediately stop paying fees for her younger sisters claiming it's a wastage of money as the others will also turn out like their elder..So because of this too much pressure to impress parents and the best live example to the young ones, first borns tend to achieve so much in life due to hardwork and the fear of failure that they grow up with..a huge shout out to all first borns out there🤩🌹💯

MIDDLE BORNS
These are children born between the first and last borns...these are usually mediators, compromising,loyal to peers, have many friends🤼👩‍👧‍👦 and used to not having attention. they are usually the opposite of the child above them in the family.middle borns are snot pushed as hard or expected to accomplish quite as much as those who come before them..the disadvantage is that without being pushed, they may never fulfill their potential..however this is not always the case as some tend to want to follow their elders foot prints 👣👣who hve done something great with their lives.

LAST BORNS
These are children that come last after everyone else has been born. A huge shout out to all the babies of the family.💞💕🌹your all extremely loved..Usually these grow up with lesser pressure and too much love..they are jolly people and so full of life...Even the society feels like if they failed, life would still not be so bad since they have elders who have made it in life and can always help them.. because of the lesser pressure, last borns usually turn out to be lazy and un serious.. however they can also turn out to be the best version of themselves due to the too much love, care , support and encouragement...there is always that someone who will encourage them not to give up and assure them that they have got their back...

Lastly I will say birth order contributes to the way ur life turns out but does not completely determine it..there are always other factors..I want to encourage everyone reading this that you can always turn out to be the best version of urself don't feel limited by anything..💯💯Above all always remember that there is the Living Almighty God who is never going to leave u even when everyone and everything leaves🌹💕