Around the work place or in the family, we often have one or two toxic persons who always like to create unnecessary attention. They are most likely difficult to manage and they just seem to ruin everyone’s emotion all the time, since toxic people are most likely never to change their bad habit, it usually causes a serious threat to be around them, usually the best thing to do will be to just look for an intelligent way to have the emotions managed.
Creating a safe distance between yourself as this toxic person either it is at your place of work or in your family will do a lot of good. Creating a safe distance between yourself and the toxic person will guarantee your own sanity and allow your operate comfortably within your space.
With a toxic person, rather than getting engaged in a heated argument with them all the time, it may just be safe to create your own boundary and have your own space. The boundary with which you created will provide you with the required comfort to live your own life without an iota of stress and worry.
Toxic people always want to be heard, they want to be the ones to have the highest visibility, they crave so much for attention that they want everyone’s eyes to be fixe d on them, as an intelligent person you just need to ignore them and act like they do not exist that way they may come to their sense and most importantly you will not be moved by the steps they are taking.
Toxic people are often betrayers and it is very important that you avoid people like that, they do not mind saying awful things about a person just to gain the favour of another so it is basically mandatory to stay away from such people as often as possible.
Toxic people will always say things to make other people feel less, if you need to stay around them you just really have to learn how to ignore them, paying attention to their insults will make you feel less of yourself so you need to learn how to ignore them.
When you stand up for yourself with a toxic person, they may use self-pity as a tool to make you reconsider your stand and also make you feel like you are the wrong person, you must be really careful with people like this and save yourself from falling into their trap.
Hello @futurekr
Toxic people are usually professional manipulators, who when they show that someone ignores or rejects them they come to self-compation as a weapon to manipulate them.
It is best to keep distance from this type of person once they are identified.
Great reflection, thank you for sharing it.
Regards.
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These types of people are everywhere, in fact I have wondered, am I a toxic person? Will I be able to recognize the toxicity in my actions? I can only say that in front of this type of people I only prefer to get away, to mark distance.
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Most times when I meet toxic people, I always try to distance myself from them because I discovered no matter what, they might influence you negatively
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I have had contact with many toxic people and it is definitely best to get them away as soon as possible. These people only want to cause harm to others for their own benefit. So the best thing to do is simply leave them behind and look for people who are really worth it.
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Well in as much as we try to avoid toxic people, let's try not to become toxic ourselves. Nice read
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Hello @futurekr In my personal experience, I had to deal with a toxic person in my old job, and I must say that it certainly requires a lot of skill to manage emotions to not fall into their game, and certainly show the characteristics that you describe very well. I think that what you say about creating that distance is the best thing to do, and take care of yourself...greetings!
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Hello friend, the truth is that there will always be that kind of people in our way, I think we should ignore them and simply pay attention to what really interests us. Many times we work with them, and we must be patient, but we must establish limits, just because we are patient does not mean that we must put up with things that we do not like. Greetings and thanks for your advice!
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