DALE CARNEGIE|HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE|REVIEW BY MOHSIN ALI|10-Sep-2020

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Hello and greetings to all my beautiful fellows of @project.hope .
I read a lot of great reviews on this book by a lot of people and i thought of giving this amazing book a read and making my own review.
But my review won't be in one post i will divide my review in 2 posts or maybe 3 posts because it's not easy to read this whole book and explain all the lessons and experience in one post..
And most importantly i will tell some great things about this great writer


DALE CARNEGIE

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One thing i observed from his books that he was type of a motivational writer like we see alot motivational speakers right now but in my life first time I've seen a motovational writer.His books like
1.The Leader Inside you

2.The Art Of Public Speaking

3.Life Is Short,Make It Great

The type of books he has written makes me feel like he wanted people to express themselves to the world and don't run behind someone who don't respect your valuable time you give them.
He lived in an era where there was no technology but he didn't give up and wrote these amazing books and helped people to overcome depression and gave them confidence.
That's my perspective about dale carnegie


NOW LET'S START REVIEWING

HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE

So the first part of this books is based on
How To Handle Peoples Of Different Types.

Chapter No. 1

"IF YOU WANT TO GETHER HONEY,
DONT KICK OVER THE BEEHIVE"

Through these two lines the writer wants to deliver one thing that some people always criticise others and never accept their mistakes.
This also gives us a lesson that if someone makes a mistake there's no need to do straight criticism at that person because criticism won't make any difference and everyone will start blaming each other.So the lesson is if someone is on the mistake go to him,make him feel comfortable and explain him lovingly to not make that mistake again.

Chapter No.2

"THE BIG SECRET OF DEALING WITH PEOPLE"
In this chapter the writer wants to give a very important lesson for people that if you want anyone(labour,your child or others) to do what you want there are two ways to make them work on your orders.One way is that you threat them or you scold them them to do what you want and surely they will do it but as soon as you turn your back or leave that place they'll stop working on your orders.Because you can't expect someone to work on your orders with bad behaviour.The second way is by giving that person what he wants...
Everyone wants that he/she should be appreciated and should be given importance and this is the only way you make people love you and this will only happen when you have good behaviour with everyone dealing everyone equally.

Here's how i would end my first part of reviewing this..
See you in my next part of review
Hope you all like it.

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The book is really great one. And I hope you are also enjoy your reading about the book

It is a magnificent read! I personally enjoyed the 1st chapter and I have yet to make my post about this book.I hope you have enjoyed it and it is very useful to you, it has fascinated me.

GOOD ONE BRO KEEP IT UP!

Thanks for appreciating @shahab1998

I'm glad to know you found time to check out this book @moohsin :)

And thanks for sharing your view.
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Piotr

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