Hello beautiful people. Hope you're doing amazing today. This is another day to talk about Life Issues and today, we are talking about the three codes of human interactions.
Have you ever thought about human interactions? I mean the things you talk to people about and how you do it.
Do you know that as an adult, about 90% of anything you'll ever get in life will come from your interaction with other people? Your job, your buying and selling, your love life, your neighborhood relationships, just name it.
But isn't it interesting that despite this obvious fact, some people still live oblivious of the favour they stand to gain if they can learn and master some of the fundamental codes that guide human interaction?
Here are three concepts that can change your life forever if you master them.
■Give Value
Zig Ziglar said, "If you can give people what they want, you will get all you want!" Isn't that instructive?
There's nothing buyable that Aliko Dangote can't get today even free sometimes, simply because he gave people cement, sugar, flour, pasta and others.
Value is one of the pillars of relationships. Value is anything that's relevant, solves problems or causes an escape from experiences (comedy) and can be exchanged for reward (maybe money).
I'd rather be the jester who adds value to those around me than a King with no vision or intention of making a difference.
~Janna Cachola
Identify what's valuable to people, position and prepare yourself to offer it and you'll stand a great chance to get all you want.
■The Feeling of Importance
This is the number one psychological need of every human. People want to have money so that they can afford their own comfort without being disrespected.
Professors get angry when you call their names and forget to add their 'prof' title. Your soldier friend feels offended when you see him at his duty post and you relate with him as a civilian.
You are who you think you are; how you make others feel is how you become who they think you are and a reflection of their inner thoughts.
~Jesse Edwards
Never forget this, make people feel important and you'll buy their hearts. If you come across them amidst people, say the good things you know them for.
Even your younger ones, don't remember their negative pasts in an environment where people are praising them. That's why the masters thank and praise you before correcting you or demanding anything.
■Sympathy
When you find someone talking about their pains, sympathize with them and you can influence them.
Forward people make the mistake of advising someone in pain but in those moments, they're more in touch with their emotional side seeking comfort than their logical side seeking counsel. They just want to vent and pour out their hearts.
These three codes will not only improve your relationship with people, they'll also be very willing to favour you or do your biddings.
In conclusion, Watch what you say to people. A wrong word said can never be unsaid. That you feel like saying it doesn't mean it will not have greater negative impact on your relationship.
