So my dear friends the question we have this time is referred to whether we should care what others think about us, personally there are many things we hear about us either positively or negatively, the truth is that I think that everything will depend on the person who refers to us, that is, there are people who esteem us very much and want the best for us, and therefore, their opinion should count and consider their opinions.
However, there is also another type of person who is the opposite, that is, they live trying to hinder our happiness or the happiness of those around us, I think that the opinion of these people should not be worth anything to us, on the contrary we must show them that we are able to accept them despite their bad intentions, and thus teach them that in life the most important thing is that we can share in the best way with everyone around us.
I think we should always keep in mind that as human beings we are going to make mistakes, and that is why we should never judge anyone because I believe that life is like a mirror, and therefore, bad actions are returned to you, so why invest time in things that make no sense, let's live happily and allow the people around us to be happy.
In many occasions we do not like the way of living of certain people, but, the important thing is that they feel happy that way, each and every one of us have different ways of thinking and seeing life, and this aspect leads us to conclude that when a person has shown that he really appreciates us, and also with facts, then, we must pay attention to their opinions towards us, it does not mean that we have to do what they say, but, sometimes we find ourselves doing things that without realizing it can lead us to deviate from our path to the successes raised.
Until another opportunity my dear friends, I think that we should take into account the opinion of others, and this of course, depending on where they come from, and so we stop to think a little if we are doing things right, and also if our actions are not harming our loved ones or those people around us.
Most times it actually depends whether we should take the opinion of others. Most times if the opinion will not favour us, its better not to take it but if it will really help us to grow and develop ourselves, I believe there is no need for that
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Very interesting reflection friend @dgalan, especially taking into account how many people strive to get approval from others. In particular, I consider that the first person we should seek to please is ourselves, I do not say it in an egocentric tone, but I am one of those who believe that there is no tougher judge than our conscience, so if we are able to keep our conscience calm , to feel comfortable with our daily conduct, I am very sure that we will have the appreciation of the majority of people and those who do not appreciate us ... well, let's give them the necessary time to get to know each other better.
Greetings my dear friend!
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Hello my friend @rbalzan79!
Certainly if the opinion comes from people that we know that they really love and appreciate us, I think that if we should pay attention, especially our parents because they will always want the best for us, otherwise we should just ignore and stay away from people who make us ben and only have negative opinions. Greetings!
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Hello friend, I think the answer is very easy to answer, we should only care about what we ourselves think, give strength to what others say is to increase our insecurity and lack of confidence, so it is best to believe in ourselves and not pay attention to external opinions. Best regards!
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An excellent article my dear friend @rbalzan79, none of us escape sometimes from bad comments, but as you say it depends on who the opinion comes from, because, sometimes such comments are ill-intentioned to generate instability in our lives, therefore, we must have our self-esteem high and ignore the foolish words.
See you later brother, have a great week.
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We are conditioned in life to judge ourselves by others. For example, we are happy at school when we get an A grade until such time we find all our friends received an A+. We need to judge ourselves against our ability to reach our goals rather always worrying what others will think.
They say a conformist will spend their life making everyone else happy but a rebel makes themselves happy.
Great post my friend 😀
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Well done bro.. Can i add this, the real problem with caring what others think or say of us comes when we are more concerned with their reactions than our own self-assessment; or even worse, you don’t know what you think because you are so eager to please others. In any given situation, it’s important for you to know your own mind. I like the writeup
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