Children are ALLAH blessing upon us, and raising them properly is a serious responsibility that should not be underestimated. We will ask about it as for ALLAH mother. The Messenger said, “You are all shepherds and responsible for his flock.”
But in light of this difficult time, in which temptations and temptations are widespread, how can a healthy child be raised, psychologically and self-confident, that no one fears.
There are some important ways to do this: -
Encourage your child
Children love to be encouraged, praised for their good deeds, and celebrated for their accomplishments to give them a feeling of appreciation. Sultan Murad, the father of Sultan Mehmed the Conqueror, used to take his son early in the morning on the horse behind him to see the walls of Constantinople, and tell him the words of the Messenger of ALLAH , to conquer Constantinople.
the love
Giving children a lot and a lot of love by hugging and kissing them and sitting next to them while sleeping, by saying the word I love you to him daily. Many young people of the current generation do not remember when the last time their parents embraced them, so they learned cruelty and estrangement.
Set an example for your child
Children pay attention to everything and observe the world of adults. The child knows the behavior of his father and his mother well and does the same. You do well, your child will do and vice versa.
Listen
Children talk a lot about their discovery of the world around them, about their friends about everything they meet in their day, when listening to our children we know what is inside them and what they learn from the outside world, so we can then alert on the right and wrong and learn how to differentiate between them