If the other has already shown disinterest, let him go. Let it go ... It may not seem like it, but then it will be a relief ... It is to let go of what no longer holds and to allow ourselves to be more free and authentic to receive what has to come.
Holding on to someone we should let go of creates a lot of pain, as well as anguish and worry. We thought that letting go of the person would cause us a lot of suffering, and again we were wrong to think that it was something that was so hard to achieve and that we would never find a replacement.
If we continue to insist, we can fool ourselves into thinking that the meaning of our happiness or even of living is thanks to this person who does not want to be part of our life, and we deceive ourselves thinking that life would stop being pleasant, we would lose track and dreams . This is not true. Life is too short for us to live permanently frustrated trying all the time to please and give our best to those who give us all the signs that they do not like us. Part of the process of being happy is the ability to know what and where we are going to spend our own time. Deciding often means giving up.
It is necessary to have an affective responsibility for oneself and understand that "running after" in the hope of passing the "test" of the other, is extremely offensive. Love should be shown promptly and you shouldn't have to beg or beg for it. If you need to beg, you are submitting to the worst form of torture: indifference.
"Numbing the pain for a while will only get worse when you finally feel it." - JK Rowling
Sometimes, accepting that the other does not love us is not necessarily a sacrifice, but a "thank you" for everything we learn. It means accepting each situation as it is. It is not necessarily leaving or letting go, but simply not forcing things to be the way we would like, letting everything happen naturally.
You never lose loving. Just be careful not to lose yourself loving someone who doesn't love you. A heart doesn't stop beating just because it's broken; if you need to learn to love again: it starts with
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