SEC-S16/W2 - "Childhood trauma and incidents: how do they affect our children's life? " | @joymm

in hive-179660 •  7 months ago 

Greetings everyone.. How are you doing? Trust is moving smoothly.. Its another week of the steemit engagement challenge and all of you are welcome to my blog post. Below is my participation;

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What are the problems faced by children, & which are all childhood traumas?

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Everyone has a problem or challenge facing him/her and hereby children aren't excluded. Children traumas happens when violent events overwhelms the life of the child. Some of these traumatic dangerous events includes; domestic violence, sexual abuse, terrorism, psychological, natural disasters, etc. Children who have experienced these traumas often have difficulty in expressing their emotions, identifying things, significant depression, anxiety, etc.

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How to protect children from social bullying?

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Before we get to know the importance of protecting our children from bullying, let's first know the meaning of bullying. "Social Bullying" is the act and intention of hurting someone reputation, relationships, social life, etc. Bullying happens both physically and online. The most vulnerable children are faced with a high risk of bullying. In order to keep our children safe from social bullying, below here are few steps to take;

Parents should enlighten their children about bullying.
Talk openly, freely and frequently to our children in order to open their mindset.
Help your child to be a positive role model.
Make sure to be part of their online life experience.
Help to build your child's self esteem and confidence. Encourage them and this will help to build their confidence as well.

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How to educate our children about good touch and bad touch?

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Touch plays an important role in a life of a child. Hugs, high fives can express our love for a child. Its a sign of a good touch that makes a child feel supported and cared for. On the other hand, it is necessary to know that our children are been exposed to bad touch. Bad touch is a touch which makes a child unease, uncomfortable, anxious, nervous, or afraid. Inappropriate touching of a child's body is a typical example of a bad touch. So in order for us to get our children educated about it, we should teach them these measures below;

Teach your children about the names of the various parts of the body.
Teach them about body privacy.
Teach them the appropriate way to talk to people and who they can approach whenever such situations occur.
Teach them what to do whenever someone tries to use bad touch on them.

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What do we have to sacrifice to raise a good child?

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As a good parent or guardian, there are some certain things we need to sacrifice for children for them to be the best amongst all. As a parent, you will have to sacrifice our time, energy, finance, sleep, advice, endless giving, watchful eye, clear guidance, parental role modeling, a fair mind, etc. All of these mentioned are what we are ought to sacrifice for our children for them to be outstanding.


Here comes the end of my post today.. Hopefully you learn alot from this post.. Thank you for visiting.. I want to specially invite @saintkelvin17 @entity01 @impersonal to join this interesting contest.


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Thank you for sharing such a educative post. I learnt a lot from the post. Wish your success in the dynamics.

Thank you

Greetings, As a parent, you will have to sacrifice our time, energy, finance, sleep, advice, endless giving, watchful eye, clear guidance, parental role modeling, a fair mind.

All of these mentioned are what we are ought to sacrifice for our children for them to be outstanding. Best wishes in the engagement.

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