Everyone has a desire to be appreciated and congratulated. How should it be to criticize or appreciate? Even if something is good, sneering and disliking can negatively affect the other person's morale and motivation due to the predominance of mischief. Constructive criticism, when said politely without offending, can enable a person to correct and improve his/her own deficiencies or mistakes in a work or work, such as "a nice word gets the snake out of its hole". Or the criticism may not be taken into account at all. A criticism that is not constructive and devoid of adaptability almost destroys a person.
But making him feel that he has the talent and energy to do better, to appreciate and like him opens a door for that person to achieve better things in the future. Even if they have received pedagogical formation education, friends who have insufficient communication with the student, cannot empathize, do not read books to improve themselves, constantly criticize, do not appreciate and encourage, and cannot instill the determination to work should judge young people with mercy. Those who grow up lacking in love and appreciation feel the pain of this at every stage of their lives.
In fact, humanity is in great need of pure feelings and sincerity away from pretense. Unfortunately, the number of sullen individuals who forget to smile is increasing day by day. A man or woman should pay attention to his clothes, hair, beard, cleaning, sitting, in short, all his behavior and speech in order to make himself liked by the opposite sex. We need to be sensitive and kind and tactful towards our closest family and neighbors.
Of course, we should be like that with everyone. Every word said without thinking will not return a bullet that comes out of the barrel, it will cause damage, cause heartbreak, maybe thousands of apologies may not be enough to repair a broken heart. Those who wear very kind and gentle masks towards people whom they have not even seen their faces on social media can be megalomaniacal towards their family members in real life. Those who do forty somersaults and do crappy things just to gain followers and to be watched may regret it in the future.
Thinking about pursuing good and right things by scrutinizing their work does not always cast a shadow over happiness. The ever-changing, developing and renewing life that evolves from static to dynamism is hope and gain for those who have a bright idea. All kinds of educational and instructive publications are not a waste of time, but a gain.