Father:My View, Myself Wk24

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FATHER?

I don't have one. I should have a biological one 'cause I'm not a clone but I do not remember him. My parents separated before I turned two years old. He did not do anything for me. He never reached out, cared or wanted to see me. I am sure he knows where I am but I'm not going to explain here how I know.

While my father lives the good life, like a king, I was raised in poverty while my mom worked herself into death. I had a happy childhood and lived in the Disney world drawing a lot plus from two years old I fought my mom to use the computer.

A good thing my father said:????
He never said anything to me, didn't leave me a note or letter, no postcard, no phonecall.

Tell us about your dad in two or more paragraphs.
Impossible. I have no two pargraphs to fill about a stranger and why should I?
If it comes to a father my mother was my father. She did both jobs other parents might share. If this is true I don't know. I never met an old fashioned, happy family, only hard working moms carrying the burden alone.

If you ask me fathers are overrated. I wouldn't know what a father could teach me what my mother can't. She's the complete package, a handy(womanand taught me how to use a hammer, a drill, howto paint and by now I am the 'man' in the house (sweaty feet included LOL).

A biological father never played a role. He's the invisible mr X I never think of. So no need for him to be my father in a next life (I do not believe in a next life). If cloned or a dog for a father it wouldn't make any difference except for better, more loyal dna.

I have no best advice from any father or man. They hardly play a role. I lie if I say I missed the guy and you should have one,know yours to live a happy life.

You cannot miss what you never had! Is this the advice you like to hear? If it comes to me I don't feel the need to meet a stranger, we do not have the same blood.

May 19, 2024
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Hi, I'm Xiao-Aine. I started in 2018. It's some months ago I wrote. If you wonder I am Dutch, single, have a dog, am busy and work nightshifts. Thanks for asking me again and the tips/help @wakeupkitty. I find it hard to write daily.