Who among us is more mature, we or our parents?

in hive-183209 •  4 years ago 

A few years ago, mothers and fathers were in control of it all. They decide on behalf of the children and do what their parents and grandparents found. On the other hand, the children inside their cocoons did not come out except when they mature and became in the place of these fathers, whether by the death of the parents or by marriage and the formation of the family.
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Therefore, if we asked our fathers about their lives at our age, we would find that they used to seek the help of their parents in all matters of their lives. They would not move without their advice, but now the matter has changed completely!

Each of us has an opinion, and we often decide without consulting anyone. Most of us determine the path of his education and his life, even if his parents oppose it, he does what he deems right.

This difference between the past and the present caused disputes between parents and children. Parents see children who are not mature enough to make their life decisions without them, and children see that they are not like them in the past and that they can manage their affairs, and it is not necessary that the opinion of the fathers is correct at all times.

What about you? Do you think that parents make their best decisions always?

Who is the right of parents or children?

In my opinion, the incident progress allowed young people to mix with the world from a young age, as they could volunteer in many places and mix with people, and it also allowed them to work before graduation, and even accept admission to university! What is greater is that grants were provided to them to travel outside the country, even for a short period, which burdened them with experiences and experiences from childhood, and this makes them eligible to make their decisions alone in most cases.

But young people still need the experience of their parents in some decisions and they need to discuss and hear their opinions!

From them, the benefit must be extracted and rational thinking in order to reach the correct decision. As for the decisions that the parents impose without discussion or dialogue, I do not think they are beneficial!

Therefore, I find that keeping pace with the changes taking place and granting children freedom is necessary for parents.

Young people are no longer empty-handed as before, but they still need dialogue-based advice.

Have you encountered this problem with your parents / children? What is the behavior in that situation in your opinion?

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