Who has the most influence on children

Good morning my fellow steemians, I'll start by saying a big thanks for organizing such an amazing contest for us to participate.

Who has the most influence on children? Explain with convincing reasons.

To my greatest understanding and experience, I believe parents have the greatest influence on children. Some people will likely say that teachers has the most influence on children because when they are with the children in class, they get to figure out what they can do and what they cannot do but but that is not a guarantee.

I will strongly say that parent carry the most influence on children. Then if I am to be specific in the aspect of parent, I will now say mothers because a mother have more time for her children whereas the father will likely be at work or even chooses to stay with friends outside to have fun.

Fathers find it so difficult to spend their time with their children. It is very stressful, very boring to them because they are children who are very stubborn and some fathers will not know how cope with them at times but when I comes to mothers, they have that strength and ability to be with the children no matter how stubborn they may be, mothers will always have a way to flow with them and with this, they get more close to the children and automatically create more influence and not just that but positive influence on the children.

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Who influenced you most during your childhood?

While growing up as a child, I have had a privilege to stay be with my parents, uncles, aunties and other relatives. They have contributed a lot to me as a child but to say this, my mum has been my greatest influencer as a child. Being with my uncles and aunties is another way of life and most time as a child, I may choose to hide some attributes of my life and when that happens, they may not know how to relate with me to the fullest. They don't also have time to look deep into what you are capable of doing and what you cannot do.

Their greatest concern is do what pleases them and you live by only abiding to what pleases them whereas with my parent and specifically my mother she will closer to me, get to know my needs, get to know what makes me happy and what makes me wrong, get to know what I can easily develop myself with so with this, my mother has been close to me and has also impacted a lot into me. So as a child, my mother has really influenced me and presently I still move with her influence.

Do you think children can retrain themselves even when they have good backgrounds/home training.(You can give examples,if any)

It is extremely possible for children to retrain themselves no matter the home training they might have gotten from their parent. When children leave their homes to other places example schools, friends houses football pitch and other environment that consists of their peers, they may likely love and choose to adapt to the environment.

By so doing, they get involve with what the people over there do. It may positive or negative so I must very strongly say that a child can easily retrain his or herself even after the training from their respective homes. I'll also share a typical example about my neighbour's child which I saw how the boy was nurture right from birth. This boy was been raised by his parent and in a very good example.

He was very respectful and well disciplined but when he was admitted into secondary school and stared having new friends, he then adapt the negative part of the friends and presently ended up with a new lifestyle. He has exhibited characters that the parent are all shocked, he engage in things that are not nice to see. So I use this personal example to say that children can retrain themselves even after they have good background.

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How are you influencing the younger ones around you.

With my high steeze and composure, I am very accurate on how I present myself in the society. I have taken it upon myself that I want to live the right path of life so that the people around me can always want to do so. With that I choose to take all responsibility by creating time to make a positive awareness, give idea to the people around me.

I also make sure that I make the people around me to find me the right trap of life so with all these I strongly say that this has help me to be a strong influencer to the young ones around me. And the truth about this is that, it has been my joy and zeal to assist the young ones around me. If I have my way I also choose to see all the young ones around me be at the top and the greatest joy is while they are all the top I get the courtesy and my legacy also stands. This will make me courageous and have more crave to project my influence to the young ones to the young ones.

It was really an amazing contest so I'll be inviting some of my fellow steemians to participate on the contest ,@bonaventure24,@bossj23,@toflex,@jozzie90

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