Up until recently, with Covid-19, people had to physically go where the job or career opportunities were plentiful. (Since Covid-19 the need to physically move has stalled with the influx of the work at home options). And although women are increasingly becoming the breadwinner in marriages, they still outnumber men when it comes to following their spouse to the new location for work. Women are more inclined to give up their job/career, friends and family, and all levels of security, to follow their man across the country or globe. A spouse who follows their spouse to a new relocation for the promise of a better life is referred to as “trailing spouses“. Divorce is more likely in trailing spouse cases than not.