The importance of preventing violence against our Children

السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ

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The Importance of Not Scold Children

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Wellcome back to my simple blog, this time I want to discuss about taking care of children, never scold or hit them, as parents we must educate our children to be better for their future so that when they grow up they will not hate their parents.

Indeed, children are known as individuals who are still in the process of development and learning. They need guidance, support, and affection from parents and caregivers to be able to gr0w and develop well and have a strong mentality. However, we often see children being hit, shouted at, or scolded by their parents or caregivers. This can have a very negative impact on the child's self-confidence and emotional development.

The Impact of Often Scold Children
Scolding them can have a very negative impact on their self-confidence and emotional development. Here are some of the impacts that can often occur.

Destroying Self-Confidence in Children
If we often scold our children, it can destroy their self-confidence and make them feel worthless and uncomfortable with their parents.
Developing their fear of us
Scolding children can develop fear in them, so that they find it more difficult to talk and interact with other people, especially they are afraid to communicate with their parents.
Disturbing Emotional Development
Scolding children can disrupt their emotional development, so that they find it more difficult to manage their emotions, later when they grow up they will scold us back.
Destroying our relationship with them
Scolding children can destroy the relationship between parents and children, so that children find it more difficult to talk and interact with their parents.

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We can use the method of Overcoming Mistakes in Children.

• We must Stay Calm
  Stay calm and do not scold children, even when they make mistakes.

• We must Speak Softly
  Speak softly And do not insult children, so that they feel comfortable and not afraid.

• We must Use Good and Positive Language
  Use positive language and do not criticize children, so that they feel confident and not afraid.

• We Teach with Patience
  Teach children patiently and do not scold them, so that they feel comfortable and not afraid.

If we often see naughty children and it is not good for us to scold our children, we must still be able to control our emotions towards our children, all of this is for their future and ours too.

And there are also benefits if we do not scold small children

• Increase self-confidence
  Not scolding small children can increase their self-confidence and make them feel more valuable.
• Develop a sense of trust
  Not scolding small children can develop a sense of trust in them, making it more difficult for them to lie and make mistakes.
• Improve emotional development
  Not scolding small children can improve their emotional development, making it more difficult for them to manage their emotions.
• Improve relationships
  Not scolding small children can improve the relationship between parents and children, making it more difficult for children to talk and interact with their parents.

So, the conclusion

Scolding small children can have a very negative impact on their self-confidence and emotional development. Therefore, we should try not to scold small children and deal with theiir mistakes in a more positive and constructive way. Thus, we can help small children to grow and develop well and become confident individuals with balanced emotions..

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