I want to go back to being a child again, but as a man, life is not easy for us and it is cruel, Everything becomes more serious and it involves me to take heavy action and make difficult decisions.
Becoming an adult is an important phase in life that comes with challenges and lessons, Many people have already transitioned into adulthood and some people have just transitioned into adulthood.
As we transition into adulthood, we face various responsibilities that can be burdensome, From managing finances to balancing personal relationships.
In this era, adulthood is not always seen from age because some people transition into adulthood when they are very young, we may be old but may not want to grow up.
Adulthood is a long journey, full of unexpected twists and turns, One minute we are celebrating our independence, and the next we are crying.
Honestly, being an adult is hard, It's like being thrown into a swimming pool and we don't know how to swim, We just flap our arms, trying to stay afloat, but sometimes we sink.
And that's okay. There's something about adulthood that doesn't sit right with me, We are often convinced that adulthood is fun, but it's not, the struggle is real.
Being an adult means a lot of things and when I say a lot of things, it means financial stress, mental health, relationship drama, and career uncertainty.
From managing finances to balancing personal relationships, we can feel like we are always busy, For someone like me who hates comfort, adulthood affects me mentally, I always feel like I am not doing enough and I need more or doing more things.
All of these feelings were not there when I was growing up. I now understand why my mom kept telling me that we will do it when we grow up, the message is clear now.
The belief about adulthood suggests that by a certain age, we should have everything like a steady job and a comfortable home.
However, the reality is that reality is often not like this perfect picture. "They didn't tell me what they wanted".
I know there are people whose lives are already settled and I have everything they wanted at the right age, but this is not the case for everyone.
In my case, my life is far from what I imagined a few years ago, but I am still grateful. I am still far from where I want to be even though I don't have a day off. It's not easy.
However, self-care is important in adulthood. It’s easy to neglect our own needs when we’re busy with responsibilities, but prioritizing our mental and physical health is essential.
Whether it’s through exercise, hobbies, or just taking time to relax, finding ways to recharge is important. If we think about life too much, we can almost go crazy. We must not lose sight of the joy and enjoyment of the process.
Lastly, adulthood is a journey full of lessons, Mistakes are bound to happen, but that is part of the learning process.
Each experience helps us understand our strengths and weaknesses and contributes to our personal growth, Above all, although adulthood can be challenging, it also presents an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.
It is important to remember that everyone is on this journey, and it is okay to seek help or lean on someone when needed, It is okay if things do not go smoothly, so that is the topic of my discussion today, hopefully it is useful and you like it, that's all and thank you.