Whenever I feel sad or something is bothering my mind, he is the person I always come to. He is not good at giving advice, but I know for sure that he will brighten my mood. He always has the right thing to say to make someone smile.
So, people love to be around him because he is more like a comedian and he does it without effort. He will make you smile without having to try, he is that good, One of the reasons why I love him is because of his positive attitude, There was a time when a bad incident happened to my friend and it changed him.
As time went by, my friend became colder, He started talking less, someone I knew for years who smiled a lot became a very cold person as time went by.
He was not social anymore, and this was because of the things he went through, people tried to bring him back because we were happy when he was himself and always wanted to be around him, but my friend lost his positive attitude.
I remember when I called him and talked to him about how he had changed, but it didn't work. A few days ago when I was checking my WhatsApp status, I saw my friend's post and realized that he now had his better smile back after years of losing it. I have seen and also heard stories of people in the same situation as my friend.
Situations kill attitudes when we only focus on the situation.
The older we get, the more we realize that many things will happen in our lives, and what we experience will change us, In fact, we can choose change.
Most people let situations change them into something they are not. Some situations or events take away the positive attitude we have. When we focus too much on the situation, it seems like there is no way out, this is why situations can bring out the worst in us such as negative attitudes and this only makes us antisocial.
This distances people from us, loses valuable people, and can also cause the loss of valuable jobs, We can be better when we focus on solutions or ways to move forward.
Situations can bring out the worst or the best in us, I know it’s not as easy as it sounds and it may take some time to calm down, but we should never let any situation in life take away our good attitude or positive energy, and take away our identity.
We should let our situations bring out the best in us and make us better, Our experiences should be seen as lessons to make better decisions because no one is perfect.
We will make some mistakes along the way, we should not dwell on them too much, but we should find a way to always be positive and make ourselves better, no matter what we are going through.
Share and manage
The mistake we often make is believing that we know everything and we don’t need anyone, We need people in our lives that we can share with.
I know not everyone has the luxury of having good people in their lives, but as humans, there should be one person that we can share our thoughts and express our feelings with.
This helps free our minds and helps manage us in a certain way because it helps deal with stress, The best thing we can do for ourselves is to manage our stress.
The amount of stress we experience every day can change us over time, We should learn how to deal with stress and share our problems with someone we trust.
we must always remember that negative people are not always negative and positive people are not always positive, Situations or circumstances and experiences change us into something we are not.
We must not lose ourselves in the process, we must not let anything take away our smile, Do not let the situation take away our identity, that's my topic today, hopefully it can entertain and be useful, that's all and thank you.