Be Yourself

Finding yourself could be tough, especially in this era where so many people are putting up lots of false identities in order to belong. The pressures of the various societies in which we find ourselves has become so much that we all changing, and adapting to what others define for us.

Through this we end up losing ourselves even before we find ourselves in life, and so from a very tender age, we conform to the ways of societies when we do not even understand, we follow in the lead of our friends so that we can belong to a particular circle, we do things we are not comfortable with so others will like us.

Time and again we are about making choices we ourselves may know deep down that we do not approve or want to do and yet still we keep up with it. And so most of us are lost, most of us are trying to find our way back, we are learning and relearning every day, trying so hard to find who we truly are, what our path truly are and what we are meant to be or do.

If only we can be ourselves, if only we would not give in to all that unnecessary pressure that seeks us out and want to devour us for the sake of friends, for the sake of society, for the sake of norms, for the sake of family. If only we would not let ourselves go for others, then we can find ourselves. I do hope you learn to be yourself and in doing so find yourself. Have a nice weekend.