A HELPING HAND

Am sometimes you can’t help but to smile when you see the length some people will go to help others when they are in trouble. That is the love some people have and the undying helping hand the can give out when others are in trouble or are feeling down. It is actually normal when others are very well prepared to do that for people not because they will get something in return but because they feel some type of joy which is unmatched by any other thing they might do.

But it is rather unfortunate that others take advantage of these people and then they try to exploit these free giving people who have not done anything but just to help.
Sometimes it not just because they cannot alias so same but it’s because they feel jealous by the praises or good name the person has been able to acquire for his or herself by helping others.

Some people too do not want to work for anything so they tend to beg or seek for help always so even when you help those people countless times they still do not appreciate what you have done for them and will always want more, at that instant the one helping people or that person out will feel over burdened by that single person but wouldn’t complain.

Now all I want to tell the helper that it is totally fine to feel overwhelmed by what you are doing and it is sometimes okay to tell the person that you can’t really do anything for that person at the moment.
Sometimes we need to think of ourselves instead of just thinking about others.
Ask yourself if what you trying to give out will be useful to you or you still need that thing.
I would have said ask yourself if the person you are there for will be there for you the same way you are doing today?

But unfortunately not everyone remembers what others do for them when the other is need of help.
They rather prefer to see you suffering until you come back to your feet and then they come back again to disturb you and ask for favours.
But it’s totally fine, just do what you do and hope your reward is somewhere else or take the joy you get from helping others.

Thanks for reading.