Your attitude is your personality. Your outward appearance is a glimpse to your inner person.

Hi, I'm kay-owobia, CEO and founder of journey to aesthetics. A blog series aimed at promoting the feminine lifestyle to its peak and more so, creating aesthetics that resonates from the innate of every lady.

Today, we'll give a little wrap up to our last weeks episode on our behaviour in public.
Where we talked about first timers and a few things to avoid doing on the road.

So, have you attended a large wedding before? Well I did attend one yesterday, so I thought maybe I could share a few stuffs here.

Well, it doesn't just end at weddings whenever you're about going out make sure you eat.

1| Eat

When we were kids, my parents never forget this they made sure we first ate.

Why on earth would you for any reason struggle food. It's honestly Funny sometimes but many a times, I have seen people engage in a banter just because of food. For me,relating from experience, it's ok to attend a wedding without having any drink or food. Dont damage your reputation or engage in some first like talk just because of a plate of rice passing over your head.

2| Decency

I so much love that and it feels like I say it in almost all my series.
But truthfully, decency is key

• talk decently
• dress decently
• behave decently

Those are the key points about decency. It speaks soo much volume of your personality.

Let me dwell a little about behaving decently;

I attended a wedding recently and I happened to be among the brides friends. So there was this lady with us( the friends) who kept on mingling and disturbing and making a whole lot of noise with guys who were among the grooms friends.

Actually, I noticed it but it wasn't my business anyways so I overlooked it. Funny enough there was an older lady watching her too and what she said about her due to the way she was behaving was very detestable.

Though she was beautiful physically, she wasn't beautiful in her behaviour

3| Food

I'm not a foodie, but I love food. So while eating in public, do you just take off the meat and drop the plate?

That'll be a huge waste. It would be proper to decline the food if you didn't want it.
But it may happen that you lost appetite, I'm not saying you should force yourself on what doesn't taste good but by all means avoid waste nor should you spill particles on the floor.

Also, after eating where does your toothpick go, does it still sit on your mouth or do you take it off after removing food particles?

Please do take it off, it's a toothpick not a fashion tool.

You maybe very likely to belch after eating😏 so do you just sit there and let it sound like a time bomb or you excuse yourself and control the manner you let it out.
By no means do the former!

Then the last, *did your meat just fall on the ground?😬 yes, still in public. Would you pick it or let it go?

That's left for you no doubt, no eye service or hygiene.? You choose that for yourself 😆
There are a lot of public behaviours out there we need to control.and others we should put up. Journey to aesthetics might not enumerate all of it, but it's important to use our power of discernment to know what' best way to be aesthetics when out there.

Being aesthetics feels so good. So, when you get a step higher each time on your journey to aesthetics, do give yourself a cup of juice because you deserve it. Cheers.🥂

Cc;
@smilenigeria
@queeensley
@patjewell

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