Good evening and happy new week to you all. Is been a While I post here good to be here hope everyone is doing well.
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Today in steem women club a lot of things is going on which is affecting our female child and our male child that if we don't rise up and take up responsibility just look at the way our young girls are involving in crime, killing, drugs and many serious mischievous acts, What is the way forward
Are we going to continue like this? The way things are going sometimes make me fear that soon it may get out of hand.
Mothers do not know their female child anymore
Father's can't even boost of their female child anymore what is happening, how do we get here. What marvels me is some of them grow up in a Christian home where discipline and good up bringing was possible only for them to turn to something else outside home some even with the parent the change because of the influence of pear groups
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Mothers home training and discipline is not enough let us all go on our knees for our Female children prayer is the key. Female children suppose to be a caring, loving, gentle, kind always ready to protect and guide not a murderer not a drugs addicts. Female child is a mother right from birth not a black sheep.
Female child is a wonderful gift from creator to humanity because nations come out of a woman, kingdom come out from woman. Women are precious gold women are not vampire we are peace, home to any that come to us.
So many time I sat with tears rolling down my chest wondering how the next generation that is coming out from us me will be. If this our generation is like this that our parents fore - fathers at least some of them knew God and introduce our fathers to that way, and yet we still have this kind of crimes rate. What about our generation which some of us are busying making money forgetting the primary assignment some don't even know their right and left some do not have time to be part of their child growth everything is been done by Nanny which the child or children grow up to be used with. In a home where the mother and father that have two kids wake up before 5:00am every day before 6:00am they out of home remember by this time the children is not yet wake. comes back by 9.30pm by this time too the children is far asleep and the Nanny is the one in charge of everything in the house including the children what do you think will be the result of that home?
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Allowing your children into total stranger hand are do we feel where is our conscience? You don't have time for your children, you don't help them in doing assignments, let alone having time to discuss or ask them questions like
How was your day,
how was school
What happened in school today
Did your teacher gave you homework have you done them. Let me see what you deed.
Tell me the name of your friend, is your friend female or male how close are you to him or her questions like this put that child in shape. Any concerns like tell me what do you eat today hope you love the food gave to you today?
Once you do this you create intimacy between you the father and child there's no how that child will hide anything from you.
That nanny you leave your child with,
How do you know that person you are living your child to take care of?
We have allowed ourselves to be carry away with the stress of looking for money, material things which has affected our children life, sending them to wrong hands, bad company, bad influence which has influenced them negatively. Is time mothers and fathers look into the affairs of our children know their in and out, their friends, places they go, things they do and with our knees down on behalf of them will make our children the best.
The painful part is that the parents investing so much on their children by sending them to the best schools for them become better persons in future providing everything to them but only for them to go there and join bad groups and deviate from the dreams of becoming better person tomorrow and start behaving some how some to extent that they will cause the parent that is financing their fees pains. Before you know they are wasted, some rot in jail because of bad influence and wrong company they keep.
Please let be part of children growth if possible follow them to school know their friends, know where they sleep what the wear higher institutions is another place that open most of our young girls eye. They want to be like Mr A and Mr B they want to be among. Once this mind of comparison set in, reverse is inevitable.
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Word to my fellow young ladies.
My fellow young girls
Please let us shun drugs, killing, mischievousness and embrace peace, good habit, harmony, let us get back our sanity we are love, we are peace, we are great mothers, we are home makers we are not home breakers, we are smart and intelligent mothers not murderer not bad influencer. Any one that want to introduce you to anything you don't like tell that person No let us stop bad habit, let us stop running after another woman husband we are ladies of Dignity, respectful and a lady of honour, shun violence is not in our blood to be violent to retaliate we are pace - setters.
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And to our Men great fathers and husband
Please shun womanizing, stop dangering your life, stop going after young girl, stop spending on young girls outside rather than your wife and children you are a father you suppose to lead the way, you suppose to set the pace for others to follow. you are a warrior, a lion greatness is in you. Don't be carried away by too much money, let no woman deceive you your home is your home. Your wife is your first property and your blood treat her well love her she will love you back. You are our fathers we respect and treat you as a father we love you we don't want to lose you anymore. We don't want to cry over our fathers anymore.
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our Mummy, wife please treat our fathers well
Take care of them, don't allow them to the hand of our young girls. Show them love remember they are your first baby love them. Stop gossiping our fathers in a salon, or any gathering of woman let me shock you they will not tell you the truth but lies and condemn. Women are full of fake life all they will tell you is fake nothing true just to make you mad of your husband at home. Don't follow them, don't give room to insecurity in your home. Protect your home, mothers are guidance angel look for the best in your home stop comparing your husband with another this where you will get it all wrong. Rather proclaim your husband as the best husband, best father to your children best creatures you ever meet. When we consider all this in our home we will get the best home, society, community and the world a better place to be.
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In general.
Mummy, Daddy, brother, sister Aunty, Uncle Teacher, Boss, pastor our leaders we are one people treat us as one we are not slaves, we are not murderers, we are not drugs addictive we are great people are one Nigeria moving toward greatness and better Nigeria. Together we get our dream all this is achieved when we show respect
Love
Care
Tenderness
And kindness toward one another in unity we move🤛🤛🤛.
Thank you for your undivided attention
I love you all❤️💕
We need a better Nigeria of our dream and I believe we have the better society and community.