SEC S4-W3 \\ A smile to change the world

It's simple, my principle never bothers with any problems, simple things can make me smile happily, seeing my cute little niece for example, with that alone will make my mind calm as if without any problems

I've told a little in one post about my life, since I was little I've been carrying a heavy burden, I went to school while working and helped all my family's living expenses, before my father died, they (father and mother) first divorced, and I am the eldest child who replaces the father figure for my younger siblings, you guys judge for yourself what I'm facing, but that doesn't stop me from being happy at all, I'm just enjoying life and grateful to have existed in this world , my mother smiled, that is my goal in this life

The importance of happiness

Oh that's very important, back to my topic above, the burden of life that I experienced was not at all a burden for a child at that time, if only I didn't accept reality and kept thinking about it, I might have gone crazy or I could be frustrated and suicide, it has happened a lot just because you can't be grateful for this life

Effort alone is not enough, we must accept reality sincerely, that's why happiness is important, besides reducing stress it will also help logical thinking, what is life if there are no problems I personally seem to challenge problems to come to me, I dare to face it and be responsible for all of it, happy and thankful are the main keys to living this life, happiness cannot be bought with money, only ourselves can make it

The happiest moment of your childhood

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My nephew

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Childhood certainly has very extraordinary memories, my happiest moment as a child was I won the national level quiz event, and the prize I could give to my parents for building a hut we loved, the moment it is history for me, and to this day it is still in the memory of me and my mother

I was 10 years old at that time, isn't it very fun at that age I can build a house, even though it's just a hut, to me it's a palace

Happiest moment right now (no more than 2 years ago)

Recently I was also renovating my old house, now it is still under repair, the same thing is happening again, of course it makes me very happy, making my mother smile is my main goal, nothing else, until now this is only one request that I haven't fulfilled, namely get married, to be honest, I also want but I haven't got a soul mate yet, if it is achieved, my happiness will be complete forever

In addition, two years ago, I also married my younger sister, the photo above is of her child, as an older brother, I think the responsibility for him is over, he already has a good husband and a cute child,, it also really makes me happy

If happiness was a color, what would you associate it with

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The sky, I will associate it with sky, have you ever seen a sunset, it's very beautiful isn't it, and the sunset is above the sky, and is covered by clouds

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This sunset is formed when the sky is cloudy, I liken the black cloud to problem, while the sky is a world place to live life, and sunset is a wisdom contained in a problem, that's how I liken it

In every problem that exists, there must be wisdom behind all of it, the photo above proves it, therefore I describe my happiness with the beautiful sky and sunset in between, even though it is only for a moment, and cannot be had, at least beauty (happiness) ) can be enjoyed

What do you think is the secret to happiness

Indirectly, maybe I have answered this point above, don't limit your happiness to trivial things, once again I say what is life if there are no problems, live where we are grateful and how we deal with it, according to I face all problems with smile and sincere, everything that happens will definitely be fine

Rest assured that no ocean without shore, no suffering without end

That's all from me, thank you to friends who have visited my post, and greetings to all the team and members in this beloved community

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