Important Decisions.

Hello friends this is my participation for the New contest: Important Decisions. Hosted by @tahispadron in Reflections of Life

I just wanted to say that Every person sometimes has to take a very important decision in life which can affect his life. And to withstand the intensity of these emotions, God has made us more intelligent than other creatures, so that we can understand our good and bad thoughts and take our decisions.

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What was the most important decision you had to make? Tell us your experience.
It was a strange situation when I had to take an important decision of my life and get married at a very young age by putting pressure on my parents, even though I neither knew the person I was going to marry nor before. ever met.

But at that time it was not in my mind to think about this decision and its advantages and disadvantages, nor did I have the understanding to think. And now almost 40 years have passed since this incident.

What impact has it had on your life?

This decision greatly affected my life, I had to deviate from my career goal of becoming a lawyer, I had to become detached from the things that were growing in my mind, but whatever happened was probably God's approval.

After that decision, I left my studies midway and focused on a new career and joined a government job and did a very successful job and my entire family is happy.

Do you think it was the best or worst thing you did? And why.

I think that a person should never be ashamed of any of his decisions, because whatever decision you take, you have to enjoy the profit and loss in it.

And that's why I was always proud of my decision and if I tell the truth, that decision was the turning point of my life and perhaps this was God's destiny.

And by taking that decision, I had changed my own life and that of another family and made it happy. This was the best work of my life.

Would it be important to seek guidance before making a decision?

Then the same thing, I believe that sometimes there is no scope for thinking and understanding while taking decisions in life, they are taken on impulse. Whatever may be their consequences.

Many people take decisions after taking guidance from their close ones, their well-wishers, their elders, but do all the decisions taken prove to be successful, perhaps not.

I feel that many times even decisions taken after careful consideration and guidance fail.

Yes, but ignoring your well-wishers and guides is also not completely appropriate.

If you had a chance to go back in time, would you make the same decision? tell us.

Yes, of course, if I get a chance to go back in time, I would like to take the same decision again, because I have been proud of my decision throughout my life.

This decision gave happiness not only to myself but also to another family and by giving respect to that decision, I have followed it throughout my life.

And as I said earlier, I never feel embarrassed by any of my decisions, whether it is a benefit or a loss for me, because in life there are always gains and losses.

This is why God made us human and gave us the power to think and understand.

Thank you very much for reading my post, I also invite to my friend to participate in this contest:
@ninapenda @paholags @naty16 and @zaink .