Change for Love

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Love is a multifaceted and virtual form in existence with evidence of action through humans. It is said to be an enemy to crises and violence. Therefore, falling in love is what many of us still do given the purpose, which is either definite or indefinite. It is a nice experience that triggers our sense of emotions and brings us the desire for joy and peace of mind. When it occurs, we feel entangled with the other partner which enhances our overall well-being as a person or together.

Falling in love is a journey that tends to bring good tidings to us by enriching us to the best state of mind possible. We automatically find ourselves doing some healthier activities that greatly increase our life expectancy. At the initial stage, it is easier to allow for best practices that promote our personal growth and mutual growth. No one is a custodian of this concept as one may become weary over time. Therefore, in our peak moments, we should make sustainable decisions that bond us for lasting memories.

Do you consider or do you think that falling in love with someone changes the way we see life?

Love is a beautiful thing and only those in it could explain how best they feel in it at every moment. It definitely does change the way we see life. This may vary from person to person, and for each person, it may have either an ascending or descending perception. But one sure thing is the gradual fade away of those initial spikes which we have to be very careful of.

Falling in love automatically brings the need for sparkle in our activities of daily living, where colors now become brighter in our eyes, ugly looks become beautiful and adorable, and darkness now becomes light as the day becomes longer. Those little and unnoticed things are now appreciated. The smiles, laughter, and quiet moments become valuable, as these are the drivers of love that emits passion and empathy.

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2.- Do you think that for love we can change aspects of our life?

This is definitely a reality for some of us who want to uphold and be exemplary in love. There is no doubt that this comes with changes, and we do hope it does come with positive. And healthier habits that benefit us. Imagine situations where we needed to stop drinking excessively and smoking. These are habits that endanger our health and general life expectancy. Hence, we tow the path of quitting because we want to allow love to have its course. Love is simply a catalyst that ignites changes in us.

3.- Do you think that when we change something in our lives we do it for that person we love or on our own initiative?

This is a two-edged side that we may derive value from. Love on its own helps trigger the changes we ordinarily need but, for one reason or the other, still find difficult to execute. It is that driving force that helps us achieve self-growth that is interestingly beneficial to self.

On the other hand, we may be grown enough to know that pleasing the other undermines us but rather see improvement as an individual thing that better still positions us for the good. Changing only because of others is not a sustainable path as it may be shortlived when this live momentum isn't sufficiently sustained. Rather, we should always consider our self-growth in addition.

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4.- How good or bad is it to change aspects of our life to please that person with whom we fall in love?

How good or bad changes made to please the other we fall in love with could be viewed from both sides (positive & negative). It is good because of the self-benefit this would bring to the individual. Imagine quitting from intake of hard drugs and alcoholics; this does more good than harm to the individual and to the newfound relationship.

On the other hand, when we try to please the other who has resisted changes but for the sake of love decided to roll on, this at a time may continue to unsettle the value system of the partner, which may not be long-lived before it disintegrates. However, in all of these, we should ensure we strike a balance that is palatable to both parties.

5.- It is worth changing for the love of another person or you consider that people should be accepted as we are.

It is worth changing for the sake of love but this acceptance shouldn't come at the expense of the other's life. Since we already know that when love is involved, we can do anything for love. And this should come with appreciable benefits that make us better off. One good thing about love is that it definitely should attract our growth and acceptance of each other.

In conclusion, love is a beautiful thing we feel at different stages of our lives. Falling in love without hesitation brings about so much influence in our lives as we tend to inspire ourselves in diverse perspectives. However, we won't forget to strike a balance in all we do, regardless of all we possess, so we do not undermine the existence of the other.

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