NON-SEXUAL ADVISES FOR YOUNGSTERS

Hello my fellow steemians , Yes , am back again with some tips or lesson on business growth and mindset lessons. one of the key aspects we faced in society today is Depression and most especially in Africa and people haven't had the right medium to motivate themselves and move out of it . So that is why my focus is on this

Introduction

Here are some NON-SEXUAL ADVISE for people most especially the young generation and they include,

-Do not spend so much time trying to be more physically attractive in order to just impress your crush rather than making yourself mentally attractive.
Educate yourself, address your recurring toxic thoughts , deal with your insecurities and learn to be HAPPY on your own
That's attractive

-Normalize saying NO without needing to over-explain yourself . If someone is offended by your boundaries, that's their problem.
The best weight you'll ever lose is the weight of other people's opinion of you

-Don't subscribe to other people's definition of FUN
Fun doesn't have to mean drinking, partying, and socializing.
Fun can be a night alone, getting lost in a book, a deep conversation, a walk , creating art, playing music, or doing your work
Fun is yours; You define it

-Before you get married,
discuss bills, parenting style , credit, debt, how to deal with family, what belief will be installed in your children, childhood traumas, sexual expectations, partner expectations, financial expectations, family health history, bucket list, dream home, career and education, political view and whatever else come in mind
Love is not enough

-According to research, the age of 15-30 is golden era of your life. You make friends, lose them too. You make mistakes, correct them too. You fall, you fail, you learn, you realize, you hit reality, you fall in love, you get hurt too
You lose yourself and eventually become stronger.
Remember these are the best years of your life. You should understand the difference between enjoying it and ruining it.

-Heal before having children so your children don't have to heal from having you as a parent.

Conclusion

These are all advises which helps to improves ourselves on daily basis and helps us live a better life and also help us interact with people around our community.