So many people nowadays feel so uncomfortable with their situations, infact, if 10 people were being brought out so we ask them how comfortable they are with their present state, I believe 80% of them will say they aren't comfortable with the way things are going on with them, this is the reality of life, sometimes, we just feel so uncomfortable that we get used to these situations.
Today's article won't be considering situations but the reason these situations happen. Some years back, I lost my job, relationship, mom and money in a single year, I kept wondering why all these happened to me and why would it happen at once, never to boast about anything, I was depressed for over a month, I struggled out of it with the help of my mentor.
Now, 2022 which happened to be the year all these happened to me, it broke me then but I was forged by it, I became more strong and experienced, the scar those experiences left gave me this shield and courage to get through any circumstances I get to find myself. Now let's come to 2024, just two years after the last ugly experience, I lost my job, money, business deal, grandmother and another relationship in a single year and it never even felt like the end of the world to me, I have learnt before now to take things just the way they are.
What I am saying is, the experiences shapes you towards tomorrow's experience, you can't sit one place and still ask questions why the things you are going through keeps happening, No! You just have to own up to the situation and know that for some reasons, no one can help you out except God and yourself.
Experiences come not to break us but to reshape, mould and build us to the new person tomorrow's glory will need. The glory that awaits you tomorrow isn't for an inexperienced person but for one who has gone through fire and has dine with the ugly side of life.
I always tell people "you only know how sweet a sugar taste when you have tasted vinegar". Of what use is sweetness if there wasn't bitterness? Of what use will light be if there wasn't any form of darkness? These ugly situations are there to make you appreciate the glory that life will transport you to.
It is okay to cry when these situations happen, but don't let it break you, don't let it have the best of you, there is another phase life is preparing you for, tough times don't last but tough people do. Don't let your guard down, we are in this together and we will get through it.