#Trilogyofvalues 18/02/2022
Hello steemian fans
Heartbreak is as notorous as covid-19 times ten. It happens every second, minute, hour, day, week, month, and year. It ranges from anger, discontent, betrayaln dissappointment and etc.
Heartbreak is mostly on a scale of 80 on 100.
Most importantly, what do you do to prevent this unwanted friend and moment?
1--- NEVER KEEP HIGH EXPECTATIONS.
He who lives always expecting people to do this and to do that to him or her, will end up in the river of heartbreaks every single time. All your problems give you heartbreak because you expect a lot of good. When we live expecting only good happenings, we end up at loggerheads with headbreaks.
What my suggestion is, is that you should always do your best to expect less of good and more of bad. In a sense, I am saying that you should convince yourself that it can be good (50) and bad (50). With this kind of attitude, heartbreak will hardly find you.
Expect people to act badly, when they do, you will be at the stage of confirming your expectations. It will not come as a SHORK OR SURPRISE THAT CAN CAUSE HEARTBREAK. Otherwise, you will be shorked and thus, heartbreak.
If you expect your wife to cheat, you wont be as broken as when you ONLY BELIEVED that she could not cheat on you. And vice versa.
Peace.
2--- TOLERANCE
Learn to tolerate the imperfections of people around you. Without tolerating imperfections, you will suffer; both yourself and the parties involved. You must, you want happiness, recognize that neither you nor him/her/them is and are perfect.
3--- BE GRATEFUL
Gratefulness is a multiplier. If you show genuine appreciation towards every little good thing or act that you find or are given, the goodness has a greater possibility of increasing and multiplying. A thank you can bring about a thousand good deeds because the human being likes being appreciated. When this happens, it prevents the people from doing what you will not appreciate and thus, preventing further heartbreak. Try and tell me. Thank me later.
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