Hello everyone how are you? greetings to my steemians friends who have this steemit and especially those in the country of Cameroon, hopefully we will all be given health so that posts are useful and quality for all users of this steemit platform.

On this occasion I want to participate in the Steem Engagement Challenge S4-W1 in this Steem Cameroon community, because the topic presented for this first week is very interesting for me, namely CYBER BULLYING. Hopefully with my post on this occasion, I hope it will be a reading reference material for myself and also for users of the steemit platform. let's start the discussion.

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What is your understanding on Cyber bullying ?

In my opinion and also based on references that I read on the internet, cyber bullying is an act or behavior of someone who is repeatedly directed at us to scare us, make us angry, humiliate us in public such as spreading lies against us or slandering us in the media. social media or in the real world or share our photos and are given with words that make us ashamed. and there are several characteristics of cyber bullying in my view.

1. No physical touch or physical violence

there is no physical violence in the sense that the perpetrator will not touch us physically, therefore he touches our hearts, where he will make us angry, or embarrass us in the world of the universe which is widely shown by the public, so there are no cases of physical violence in cyber bullying

2. take advantage of global telecommunications, media and informatics networks

we all must have what is called social media, in social media all people in all corners of the world will know if something or an event happens and it just goes viral, now for this cyber bullying they will use or take our social media names to be badly humiliated in front of many people who see the virtual world, then we must be careful in playing social media, because for me social media is like a very sharp knife.

Have you ever been a victim or perpetrator of Cyber bullying? ?

as I said above the types of cyber bullying, I used to be a victim of this because I used to create a Facebook account and I added my profile photo with my own photo, behind that it turns out that there are people who don't like it. with my photo, some even mocked because it was not good and so on, so I told my friends how to deal with cyber bullying like what I experienced, the essence of my friends' answers is don't tell me completely or don't make it completely social media is one hundred percent for us to tell our disgrace there or upload our photos there, because many people will take advantage of it and end up being abused so that in the end it becomes cyber bullying from many people on social media.

and for now I am very sensitive to social media, because what often becomes cyber bullying is on social media networks, because the perpetrators will not touch or pursue physical violence against us but they will make us angry or embarrass us through our social media.

Give an instance (if any) wherein you or someone you know felt bullied in cyberspace, and what spiked such a feeling. (It could be throughout any social platform)

like my story above, the one who was the victim was myself, where at that time I had created a Facebook account and I was bullied because the profile photo I uploaded was not good and this could be the background for my feelings which was originally my intention to make Facebook is to find news or want to share useful things there but Cyber ​​bullying happened to me,

and at that time I was very disappointed because in my mind why are there people like this on social media, is social media that bad for us ? or we are too wrong in playing social media, all the answers are in each of us.

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How did this encounter affect this said person ?

Obviously greatly affects the victims of cyber bullying, because the psychological level of a person is definitely different, because not everyone will feel strong or will remain strong when insulted, made him angry through cyber bullying, there are even some people who are stressed about this case of cyber bullying because Their psychology is different. I was alone when I experienced something like that I was very anxious for a few days because in my mind I remembered exactly what had happened to me.

Maybe there are some people who think that cyber bullying is a normal thing, but we have to be aware of it starting from small, what if it happens to our race, religion and others, then this will be very fatal, so therefore there must be parameters For people who like to mock people, it means don't fall into cases of cyber bullying because it can affect the victim with various effects, because everyone's psychology is different.

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How safe do you feel on Steemit? And have you ever felt bullied at any point in time? (on Steemit)

And talking about this steemit platform, I've been writing articles on this steemit platform since 2017 and until now I haven't found any cyber bullying against me, that's the form of Comfort on this Steemit platform. because for me this steemit platform is like a storehouse of knowledge, because people who are knowledgeable will definitely know the risks of cyber bullying risks to victims,

so I really respect this steemit platform, for me this steemit platform is not only for earning for me but also as a knowledge repository platform , where there are so many useful articles scattered on this steemit platform, the security and comfort of this steemit platform is very well maintained and stable all the time.

What lessons did you gain from such a scenario? And what advice can you give to your audience?

The conclusion that I can conclude from the incident of cyber bullying, either against me or for victims of cyber bullying, I always take lessons not to share things related to me one hundred percent to social media or to telecommunication networks because if that happens it will trigger cyber bullying , so for now I am very careful in playing social media.

Cyber ​​bullying is an act or behavior that is very aggressive on social media in particular, therefore keep our privacy and don't tell us completely about our disgrace on social media, keep telling our close friends so that we can reduce what is called cyber bullying against everyone. And i would like to invite @wandersal , @ikmalhariamuna , @gamcantoi23 to join this Steemit Engagement Challenge S4-W1.

Thanks to : @fombae , @wase1234 , @majerius , @chant , @b-naj

About Me Achievement 1

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Author @salim001 Indonesia, Aceh

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