My Daily Experiences in Life: From Good to bad

Hope you all are doing well and good and enjoying the best days of your life. This is me @shahid2030 from Pakistan and you are here reading my post. You all are welcome here from the core of my heart.

This is my participation in a contest My Daily Experiences in Life organized in Steem Cameroon by @chant.

We all face and had faced different experiences in life. Some of them are having good memories in our minds while other have bad. Life is a continues journey of ups and downs. A person isn't static in one position. I also have experienced various situation in my life, which remains a memory in my mind. So let's discuss them.

As I mentioned, life is a continues flow of things happening. You may see good time, as well as a bad time too. I have also a vast memory ot things happened to me. I will share the worse thing which happened to me in my life, which is still an awkward memory of mine.

I was a student of FSc studying at Military hostel. They sponsored our study's dues. Once I fought with our hostel wardan. I left the hostel and escape from there. I can't went to home, because my father would punished me. I runaway to other place and was underground there for one week.

My whole family was too much worried about me. The same it was the toughest time of my life. I wanted to go back to hostel, but was a military hostel, they had zero compromise on discipline. Same I can't went to my house too. I was too much afraid of my father.

Finally I was allowed to come back to the hostel and I have done my FSc from there. This is the stupidest thing I have ever done in my life, and similarly the most toughest time too.

These days my life goes very normal. Neither too much excited moments nor tragic happening to me. I am happy with my life. Believe me what I want is a smooth and completely free life. Until my FSc my whole life is spent with the Academic tension. I was too much fed up with my study and especially at FSc, I was at extreme.

These AlhamduLillah I have a very free life and I am enjoying it very well. I am studying at university, but it's study for me is too much easy comparetively to Matric and FSc.

These days my life is going to gym early in the morning, then to university at 9:30. I spend their 2 or three hours. it depends on classes we have. after university I come home take rest. Then I have some students with me. they come for tuition. This is my daily day routine.

Att evening I go to Parks and these places with my friends, talking there a gossiping late at night. We have great fun at night here especially in summer. Most of the people come out of home only at night, because of extreme hot at day time.

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These experiences have a very positive impact on my life. I am free of tension, depression and stress. I don't have any study burden, nor my father is that much strict to me these days, as I am mature now. So I am fully enjoying it.

To be honest I don't miss my childhood. For me these days are more sweets than my childhood. I have some traumatic experience of my childhood which I can't share it here. I believe I have to much restrictions as a child, and now I have a free life. I am enjoying it the most and I am really happy with it.

My advice to those who have passed from a severe trauma to approach a good doctor so they can best guide you. The doctors give certain therapy or exercise which helps you come out of that trauma.

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Second thing such people should always keep themselves engaged in doing something. They should always have people with them. It's better for them to think less about that bad memory. Even if they are safe or they are sure that thing can't happen to them again, still they shouldn't think about it. It will become a gyre which will be unable for them to control.

Life is the game of psychology. They should make their psychological mind strong and give themselves believe that it was just a single time incident. I am very safe and sound now. Such things can help you reduce your traumatic feelings.

This is all about my blog. hope you enjoy reading it. See you soon with a new amazing and interesting topic, till take care.