"Marriage for life or Contract Marriage"

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Hello steemians, greetings i bring unto you, hope we are all in good health? am delighted to take part in this contest that was organised by @chant Thank you as you read.

First and foremost, marriage is a union for two to live together as one according to Bible. So the statement "for better and for worse till death do us part" is mostly pronounce during exchanging of vows by couple which will mark the beginning of their existence. It was during this same time they pronounce to the world by reciting the marital vows of Yes i do by both as a sign of agreement to stay forever together and end it with for better and for worse till death do us part.

So from my own point of view that statement"for better and for worse till death do us part" means after exchanging the marital vows the couple's are meant to be together forever in peace or war,in sickness and in health, till one of them is no more or both of them must have died. That statement is signing of verbal agreement by the bride and groom. That statement create a strong and lasting bond to stick to one another for the rest of their lives there will not be separation. My little understanding.

Since I was born till am getting old i have never see someone near me or even near my village that's on contract marriage but i only hear it that people does that. So both biblical and in tradition marriage is pronounce for better or for worse not on contract, so it will be advisable for any one going into marriage to have the clear picture that is"for better and worse till death do you part . So marriage for life is preferred not contract.

Yeah, house work shouldn't be gender base because in marriage everyone is a helper, husband and wife needs to understand this to avoid seeing oneself as am the Head of the family or i paid money on your head.

So, for instance if the wife is breastfeeding the baby and the husband is doing nothing but he's waiting for the woman to be through with breastfeeding and maybe continue with cooking or washing of plates, clothes and rest of them? No, that's not what marriage stand for. Is all about helping one another.

But if that's maybe the case then the Man should employe an house help who will be doing most of the house chores for the equation to balance.

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Considering my self as an expert or specialist in this field of marriage,let me share with the youths some tips.

• The number one tip is... Never be deceived that if you marry God will bless you with wealth that will help take care of your family. That's deception, go into marriage when you're financially buoyant money don't fall from heaven it is you who work for the money before it starts coming so don't be deceived.

• Don't marry because you feel every man want her so she is now the best choice to make no, beauty will fade but character will never fade.Don't marry for beauty

• Don't marry him because he's carrying the latest iPhone or the latest Ferrari this too shall pass away. So marry personality who's responsible not wealth.

•Before going into marriage observe if you both are serious with one another or you are just play boy and play girl very important.

• You both should be playmates not over seriousness you are not going there to commanders of barracks.

• Don't marry because my mom loves him or my mama like her but it should be that you both are in love. I don't want to hear Justice for Amaka, is very important take note.

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