Dogged responsibility to others often makes blinds us to the fact that we need to live for ourselves in other to find the energy, the physical strength or mental alertness to actually be selfless have a selfless tendency.
Life is full of responsibilities, the ones we garner for ourselves and the ones we involuntarily or inadvertently accrue However, it's necessary to find a balance especially when it comes to being loyal and selfless, firstly, the code is to be loyal to ourselves before we can find the resolve and energy to be to others.
Instincts and emotions might suggest otherwise but then sometimes, it's only us that matters in the whole world. I talked about this in this video.
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