We all are living in a generation where people think it's cool not to care. They think it's cool not to make efforts. But why people don't understand that it is not this way always!
It's okay to make efforts for someone whom you love and adore. It's okay, if you don't agree with what this modern generation thinks! It's okay, if you are a person who believes in and even offers that "Old School Love!" may it be friendships or relationships. Believe me, there are many people out there who believe in caring and not ignoring. It's a human tendency to get attracted to what the modern culture brings to us which indeed is a good thing, but opting for a culture that asks you not to care and ignore is something that really annoys me!
Why don't people understand that it's okay, to truly feel for someone, it's okay, if you do things to keep a person happy, it's okay, if you give them their own space but always care for them and be there whenever they need you, it's okay, if you wait for someone for more ten minutes without getting annoyed or mad at them, it's okay, if you love a person to the best you can, it's okay, if you love a person like he/she is the last person alive on this planet, it's okay, if you are the who says "Sorry" even if it's not your fault because the person you fought with is more important to you than your ego!
It's okay, if you really love a person and don't keep a count of "I Love You's" you say to them. It's okay, if you be with someone who's just opposite to you, it's okay, if you both sit together where one person holds a cup of Chai and the other person holds a cup of Coffee in their hand and just enjoy each other's company. It's okay, if you laugh at their lamest joke just because you love them so much and don't want them to get disappointed. It's okay, if you can forgive a person and click with them again in the same effortless way and connection you guys had before. It's okay, if you go through a breakdown and expect your favorite person to be with you, it's okay, if you expect someone to take care of you and love you a little extra on your bad days and even do the same for that person just because you both really matter to each other. It's okay, if you love those warm hugs from your favorite person.
It's honestly so beautiful when a person makes efforts to be with you. It's okay, if you text a person first because you care for them. It's okay, if you even double text a person because you miss them so much. It's okay if your bond has no perfect name but the feelings are pure and true enough to keep you both happy together because it's a thing you both share and you really need not clarify it to anybody else, it's okay, to not share everything with a person, it's okay, if you keep things private, it's okay, if you go out of the way and do things for people that you haven't done for anyone else and make that person feel that happiest, it's okay, to care for someone and be afraid be losing them, it's okay, to make a person feel that happiest in their smallest moments too!