SEVEN WAYS TO BECOME SMART CONFIDENT AND GOOD LOOKING.
- Get ready to tell a good story
Even if your life is usually quiet and has no sacrifices or drama, you should be able to answer the question "What's new?" except for "Not much." Self-confident people are good speakers, but it is a skill that some people need to know better than others. Are you planning a vacation? Do you repair part of your house? Do you run your kids to sports events? Are you investing in a large project with a job that requires your attention? Find something interesting to say when someone starts a conversation.
- Show to ask a question. And
try to show genuine interest in the people around you so that you can be a good speaker. Here are some good questions to get people to talk about you: what do you enjoy most? What are you doing right now? What's next? You
you also need to be prepared to answer these questions yourself and be prepared to tell a good story.
- Practice good posture. Don't look down on yourself, it means you don't have confidence. If this is a soft area, try sending a note to the edges of your computer screen using an arrow-like arrow
bright red marker. To straighten it, lower your shoulders, pull the strap over your head, straighten your spine, and lift your chin, in the middle, forward Consider turning it upside down.
- Stop worrying about what people think.
People with low self-esteem are less likely to be present and healthy when they constantly ask themselves questions such as: Do I feel confident? Did they think I was smart? Did they think I was successful? Did they think that what I said was stupid? In fact, you never really know what someone else is thinking about you. So instead of being overly concerned about them, focus on what you want to say, such as asking good questions, avoiding time-wasting pursuits, and looking others in the eye.
- Eliminate negative talk about yourself.
Pay attention to what you say to yourself in your mind. Every time you think of something like "I can't do this," give back something as good as "I'll give you my best picture." The important thing is to get out of yourself and see yourself as an outAsider. How would it make you feel to hear someone sitting next to you say "I'm fat, dumb, ugly, slow, etc.]?" It's cruel, isn't it? Exalt yourself in your imaginary life, as you would someone else.
- Smiles.
It conveys confidence, no matter what you really think. In addition, many studies have found that smiles are closely related to how a person looks.
- Learn from your mistakes without focusing on them.
memos are also important. Anyone who is confident understands that no one is perfect. If you are perfect, you are probably not