Dear man, especially a man who has the title of a husband, do not play harshly against a woman (wife) when you are angry or upset about his behavior.
Admonish him from heart to heart, because really if you talk from day to heart more to his heart, why do you have to waste energy with emotion just to make him understand?
Be aware, your wife is also a human like you, she also has eyes, ears and heart like you, so if you speak well you can still understand, why should you bother talking in a high tone?
Remember wisely, your wife is entrusted to God, so you are responsible for her as best she can in the circumstances she is like anything.
Responsible for you in directing it, giving proper love, and loving it with love that comes from Him.
When she does things you don't like and that is wrong according to God, then rebuke him without dropping him.
Admonish him with affection, admonish him lovingly, not with anger or language as if you insulted him, because no matter how your wife he was entrusted to you by his father, then make sure you trust him.
Because just like any other deposit, anyone who owns it will certainly not be happy if you treat the deposit as rudely and as you like.
Therefore, don't be afraid just because you have the right to everything to it, then you want to behave and behave without thinking.
Remember, you have given God the trust to keep it, you have God given a way to unite with it, then it means that he is the most beautiful deposit of Allah, she is the most beautiful gift of your life, so make sure you always keep it in accordance with His rules.
You also have been given the trust of his father in the form of transfer of responsibility, so make sure you are always mandated towards the responsibilities that his father has offered to you.
Make sure you are truly responsible for taking responsibility for it in any circumstances.
And one thing that you must understand why you should not just be rude to him, because she (your wife) is a crooked rib, so if you forcefully break it roughly she will break.